The Adventures of a Simple Life

Update!

2011-09-26T14:19:00.006-05:00

In July I posted the heartbreaking stories of the young lady who lost her hero...her father and my neighbor who lost his wife giving birth. Thank you to all who have called, e-mailed, asked about these two people. Thanks for praying!

Maelynn is doing ok. She was previous;y homeschooled but now is attending a school. She is loving it! I wish I could give more info. but I will leave it at please pray for her. It is a hard time for her. So much for a young girl to have to deal with at a young age. She is a sweet girl that my kids love. Please remember her. She needs our prayers......

My neighbor, Fernando, is doing as best to be expected.

Before I give an update, I would like to correct my info from my last post. It was second-hand.

The death of his wife was a difficult, tragic one.

They went to bed about 1 am, July 6th. At 3am he woke up to her having seizures in the bed. She was rushed to the hospital where they did an emergency c-section. Lisa was unconscious and he was not able to be there. Her heart was failing, kidneys, and eventually her lungs. Lisa lived for 18 hours. Which was a blessing. The condition she had, which Fernando didn't know in English, is rare. Most ladies and their babies die within 30 minutes. Instead of her fluid gushing out when her water broke, it went up. It is a condition most drs don't ever see in their practices. They only read about it.

Alicia was in PICU for a few weeks. Since returning home, Fernando has been her sole caregiver. Though he has had family with him, he has stated he wants to be the one to get up at night for her feedings, change her diaper, care for her like her mommy would have.

He has decided to sell his home and move to Pennsylvania to be with Lisa's parents. He left a week ago to live with his brother in San Antonio until his home sells.

Alicia is a doll. She is 3 months old now. She smiles, coos, has tummy time. Enjoys being outside.

Fernando...well...as you can imagine, this has been very tough on him. His heart aches. He longs to be sharing each milestone Alicia has with his beloved Lisa. He thinks of the joy she expressed about wanting to be a mother. But he is doing it alone...

Please pray for him. These days are very tough. I have seen the pain and tears in his eyes. The grief. The sadness in his voice. It is a hard journey. So many decisions to make. So many memories to be made without Lisa.

Please pray for the Lord to minister to his heart and give him a peace that can only be given by Christ. Pray for his house to sell quickly so he can be up near the resting place of his wife and surrounded by her family who supports and loves him.

I give thanks to you who has prayed on behalf of these 2 people. I do ask that you don't stop. This is just the beginning of hard journey for them. The holidays are coming up and birthdays will arrive. Times of grief will still be there.

Please pray with me that the Truth of God's Word would be made known unto them and Christ will be their strength in these great times of sadness...

Isaiah 40:18-31 Do you not know? Have you not heard? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.

PLEASE Pray For These Two Who Hurt...and Consider

2011-07-23T17:23:00.004-05:00

This past week has been emotional.

It started on Monday, we received the news of a young girl we know, Maelynn, that her father Maxie had passed away.

9 days before he passed, he was working hard. Enjoying life. A few days later he said he hadn't fell well for a bit and decided he needed to be checked out. He went to the hospital to learn he had liver cancer. They sent him home with 2 weeks to live.

7 days later, he passed away.

My heart breaks for this young girl at the age of 16. Since I have met her she has often mentioned her love for her daddy. It was very obvious they were close.

Our family went to the wake, it was hard to look at her, walking around greeting people, giving out hugs. She seemed ok. Said she was holding up ok. I couldn't help to tear up often knowing that once these times end, reality will set in.

She will miss her daddy. She will cry out wanting to be held by him. She will grieve the loss of her hero.

After returning from the funeral on Friday, I went outside to grab my cup out of the van around dinner.

While out there I learned of some other news that sunk my heart.

Our neighbors, Fernando and Lisa, who are a young couple, have been expecting their first child. They have been excited, getting the house ready for their new blessing.

They didn't want to know the gender of their baby, wanted it to be a surprise. Her parents came in town a week before the due date to be there when the baby was born.

I talked to Lisa a couple of days before she had the baby, briefly sharing in the excitement of the upcoming birth of their baby. I offered a meal once the family left.

2 weeks have passed, I have seen many cars and family in town. I anxiously, but patiently can't wait till the family leaves to visit our neighbors and see their child. Wondering if she had a boy or girl.

Again, while out to get my cup, I learn of some dreadful news.

While in labor, the baby became distressed and they had to do an emergency c-section.

That night a precious life was brought in this world, but another was leaving.

This newest little blessing's mommy was dying.

Due to the mom and baby having some problems, they wanted to airlift them to a hospital in Houston for extensive medical care.

On the ride over in the trauma hawk, with the baby on one side, and his wife on the other, Fernando witnessed his wife die.

I am so saddened for this young man. A joyous moment he was expecting turned into a time of grief and heartache.

My heart has been hurting so much for Fernando.

I look over at our neighbors house and am so saddened.

It seems empty. Lonely.

I can not imagine what this man is going through. A time he thought he would be sharing with Lisa as new parents has dramatically changed.

The heartache he feels. He lost his best friend. In a time of grief, one would naturally turn to their spouse. Yet his wife is gone.

But life doesn't stop.

He has a little girl to take care of. A little girl who will never hear her mothers voice. Know the warm touch of her mother. She won't experience the love that her mommy already so strongly had for her.

Alicia will be discharged from the hospital Tuesday. Fernando will pick her up, strap her in her little car seat, and bring her home to the room her parents prepared for her.

He will bring her home to a house filled with many memories and have to start new ones without his beloved.

Fernando, a first time daddy, will be on his own to take care of little Alicia. Try to calm her cries, wake up every 2 hours, witness her first smile...alone.

I ask you, please pray. Pray for Maelynn who lost her daddy, pray for Fernando and Alicia. For both are greatly hurting.

Pray for our family as we reach out to serve these people. Pray that Christ would shine through us. For His glory.

And I urge you to consider...

Consider your loved ones. Do you spend time with them? Do you get mad over little things? Do you lay yourself aside to spend extra time with your child? Do you tell them you love them? Do you treasure your loved ones?

For you do not know when the last time you will see them. When they will see you.

God has a plan, and we do not know when he will take us from this earth.

You could die tonight. I could. Your loved one.

And most importantly, I ask you to consider one more thing...

If you were to die, would you know where you would go?

Most think they will go to heaven. But are you sure?

Good works won't get you to heaven. Neither will being kind. Nor trying to help those in need.

Have you ever lied?...Lusted over a lady?...Coveted someones car or life, talent...etc? Did you ever disobey your parents when you were little?

If you are honest, you will admit you are guilty. You have sinned against God our Creator by breaking His 10 Commandments. I have broken His commandments.

We all are sinners.

If you were to die tonight, based on knowing you have broken the most Holy God's commandments, do you think you would be innocent or guilty in the eyes of God?

Since God is holy, and can not be near sin, do you, based on breaking the 10 Commandments, think you would go to heaven or hell? If you have not put your trust in Christ and repented of your sins, then you will be sent to hell.

I am not trying to be harsh, but share my love with you. I care about your soul.

If you don't have a relationship with Christ, trust and believe in Him and have not asked for forgiveness for your sins, I urge you, today, to seek Christ.

Sunday Hymn

2011-06-26T05:00:00.000-05:00

Sweet Hour of Prayer

William Walford 1772-1850

Sweet hour of prayer! sweet hour of prayer!
That calls me from a world of care,
And bids me at my Father’s throne
Make all my wants and wishes known.
In seasons of distress and grief,
My soul has often found relief
And oft escaped the tempter’s snare
By thy return, sweet hour of prayer!

Sweet hour of prayer! sweet hour of prayer!
The joys I feel, the bliss I share,
Of those whose anxious spirits burn
With strong desires for thy return!
With such I hasten to the place
Where God my Savior shows His face,
And gladly take my station there,
And wait for thee, sweet hour of prayer!

Sweet hour of prayer! sweet hour of prayer!
Thy wings shall my petition bear
To Him whose truth and faithfulness
Engage the waiting soul to bless.
And since He bids me seek His face,
Believe His Word and trust His grace,
I’ll cast on Him my every care,
And wait for thee, sweet hour of prayer!

Sweet hour of prayer! sweet hour of prayer!
May I thy consolation share,
Till, from Mount Pisgah’s lofty height,
I view my home and take my flight:
This robe of flesh I’ll drop and rise
To seize the everlasting prize;
And shout, while passing through the air,
“Farewell, farewell, sweet hour of prayer!”

( to listen, please push pause on song playlist first)

It's Raining!!!

2011-06-22T10:36:00.003-05:00

With the much needed rain the Lord has blessed us with the past couple of days, I thought it would be great to repost this blog entry first done in 2008.

My how the kids have grown from this picture...

Almost every morning you can find Kaylyn checking the weather on the computer after breakfast. I will pull up the site and she will tell us what if it is going to rain or not. Lord-willing. When she sees it is in the forecast to rain in 5 days, she will countdown to the day when we will have a rainy day. And if it shows thunderstorms, she anticipates the day even more.

So, when we wake up to a dark, cloudy morning, with rain falling, it is an exciting day. We love the beautiful rain God gives us. I will often see my children standing near a window, gazing out, discussing how God is watering our grass and flowers for us.

Let me ask you. Do you enjoy the rain? When you awake in the morning and see rain falling down, do you murmur what a bad day it is? Have you ever considered how amazing rain can be? The glory it brings to God?

I would like to share the following meditation by John Piper about rain. It is lengthy, but please read all of it...it will make of you think of rain in a way you have may not have considered and known before.

The Great Work of God:Rain
Meditation on Job 5:8-10

But as for me, I would seek God,
And I would place my cause before God;
Who does great and unsearchable things,
Wonders without number.
He gives rain on the earth,
And sends water on the fields.

If you said to someone: "My God great and unsearchable things; He does wonders without number," and they responded, "Really? Like what?" would you say, " Like rain"? When I read these verses from Job recently, I felt, at first, the way I did on hearing some bad poetry that went something like this: "Let me suffer, let me die, just to win your hand, and even walk across the land?" Even? I would suffer and die to have your hand, and even walk across the land? As if walking across the land were more sacrificial than dying? This sounded to me like a joke.

But Job is not joking. "God does great and unsearchable things, wonders without number. He gives rain on the earth." In Job's mind rain really is one of the great, unsearchable wonders that God does. So when I read this a few weeks ago, I resolved not to treat it as meaningless pop musical lyrics. I decided to have a conversation with myself ( Which is what I mean by meditation).

Is rain a great and unsearchable wonder wrought by God? Picture yourself as a farmer in the Near East, far from any lake or stream. A few wells keep the family and animals supplied with water. But if the crops are to grow and the family is to be fed from month to month, water has to come from another source on the fields. From where?

Well, the sky. The sky? Water will come out of the clear blue sky? Well, not exactly. Water will have to be carried in the sky from the Mediterranean Sea over several hundred miles, and then be poured out on the fields from the sky. Carried? How much does it weigh? Well, if one inch of rain falls on one square mile of farmland during the night, that would be 2,323,200 cubic feet of water, which is 17,377,536 gallons, which is 144,735,360 pounds of water.

That's heavy. So how does it get up in the sky and stay there if it's so heavy? Well, it gets up there by evaporation. Really? That's a nice word. What's it mean? It means the water stops being water for a while so it can go up and not down. I see. Then how does it get down? Well, condensation happens.
What's that? The water starts becoming water again by gathering around little dust particles between .00001 and .0001 centimeters wide. That's small.

What about the salt? Salt? Yes, the Mediterranean Sea is saltwater. That would kill the crops. What about the salt? Well, the salt has to be taken out. Oh. So the sky picks up millions of pounds of water from the sea, takes out the salt, carries the water ( or whatever it is, when it is not water) for three hundred miles, and then dumps it (now turned into water again) on the farm?

Well, it doesn't dump it. If it dumped millions of pounds of water on the farm, the wheat would be crushed. So the sky dribbles the millions of pounds of water down in little drops. And they have to be big enough to fall one mile or so without evaporating, and small enough from crushing the wheat stalks.

How do all these microscopic specks of water that weigh millions of pounds get heavy enough to fall ( if that's the way to ask the question)? Well, it's called coalescence. What's that? It means specks of water start bumping into each other and join up and get bigger, and when they are big enough, they fall. Just like that? Well, not exactly, because they would just bounce off each other instead of joining up if there were no electric field present. What? Never mind. Take my word for it.

I think, instead, I will just take Job's word for it. I still don't see why drops ever get to the ground, because if they start falling as soon as they are heavier than the air, they would be to small not to evaporate on the way down. But if they wait to come down, what holds them up till they are big enough not to evaporate? Yes, I am sure there's a name for that too. But I am satisfied for now that, by any name, this is a great and unsearchable thing that God has done. I think I should be thankful-lots more thankful than I am.

Isn't rain amazing!?! As the rain continues to come down upon us this day down here in the south, may we meditate on God and His greatness in the rain.

To God Be the Glory!

This meditation was found in "Taste and See' by John Piper on pages 24-26.

Math and Chocolate!

2011-06-16T13:35:00.005-05:00

It's summer time and most are out of school, yet some of us are still schooling through the summer.

Whether you are in or out, just because I care for you ;) and don't want your brains to turn to mush, I decided to put your brain to work and give you a word problem.

Get a pencil, paper, eraser and glass of milk ready.

Problem:

What does 3 cups of melted butter

6 cups creamy peanut butter

6 cups graham crackers

4 pounds of powdered sugar

and chocolate almond bark ( picture taken from google images)

plus 6 extra large Ziploc bags equal?

Answer:

Over 200 chocolate peanut butter balls packaged and ready to serve at an anniversary party.

Bonus Question for extra points:

What does a glass of milk plus taste testers equal?

4 happy children!!!

What are you doing this summer to keep your mind fresh and your tastebuds happy?

P.S.Amy S- I know your mouth is watering...don't worry...I saved some just for you! They will be hand delivered soon!

Been Busy and Loving It

2011-06-09T07:31:00.002-05:00

These past few months have been really busy for us. Some physically, some mentally, and some emotionally.

We have been camping, traveling long distances, cooking for those in need, schooling, praying through trials, been to a conference, piano lessons, and soaking in family times.

It has been busy and won't stop for another 2 weeks, but we are loving our times.

In these last few months the Lord continues to work in our lives and though we have been busy all around, He has given us much rest in Him.

This is a quick post but I wanted all to know I have not disappeared. Thank you to those who have checked on me to make sure I am ok. I hope to visit your blogs more again soon and catch up with my friends.

Though I have been absent from you here, my prayers have not been absent concerning many of you.

Have a blessed day and Lord-willing, I will be "back" soon.

Much Love In Christ,

Christine

Sunday Hymn

2011-05-15T00:01:00.000-05:00

"I Stand Amazed in the Presence"
Charles H. Gabriel

I stand amazed in the presence
Of Jesus the Nazarene
And I wonder how He could love me,
A sinner condemned, unclean.

Chorus:
How marvelous, how wonderful
And my song shall ever be.
How marvelous, how wonderful
Is my Savior's love for me.

For me it was in the garden He prayed,
"Not my will, but thine"
He had no tears for His own griefs,
But sweat drops of blood for mine.

Chorus

He took my sins and my sorrows,
He made them His very own;
He bore the burden to Calv'ry,
And suffered and died alone.

Chorus

When with the ransomed in glory
His face I at last shall see,
'Twill be my joy thro' the ages,
To sing of His love for me.

Chorus

2011-05-11T15:42:00.000-05:00

Do you trust God? Would you ever forsake Him? Before you answer this question...take some time to meditate on this question. Search your heart. Do you have complete faith in Christ?

What if someone came to your house in the middle of the night and injured your loved ones, they were crying out in pain, you see one on the ground dead in a pool of blood, your spouse looks in your eyes with blood pouring out of their body.

For one man... this is reality.

Please read.

KURUM, Nigeria — As she lay on the ground after being shot and then slashed with a machete, Dune James Rike looked into her husband’s tear-filled eyes and asked, “Is this the end between us, so we shall not be together again?” Pastor James Musa Rike told Compass he held the hands of his dying, 35-year-old wife and told her, “Hold on to your faith in Jesus, and we shall meet and never part again.” Muslim extremists who attacked Kurum village, in the Bogoro local government area of Nigeria’s Bauchi state, had already killed two of the couple’s children in a rampage that began Wednesday (May 4) at midnight. Rike, pastor of a Church of Christ in Nigeria (COCIN) congregation in Kurum, next heard the cries of his 13-year-old daughter, Sum James Rike, a few yards away. “I rushed to my daughter, only to discover that she too was cut with a machete on her stomach, and her intestines were all around her,” he said. “I held her hand and began to pray, knowing she too was about to die. She told me that the Muslim militants told her they would kill her and “see how your Jesus will save you.” The girl told her father that she responded by telling them that Jesus had already saved her, and that by killing her they would only be making it possible for her to be with Him. Pastor Rike prayed for her as she died. Shooting and setting homes on fire, the Muslim extremists killed 12 other Christians in the attack. Bauchi police reported 16 people dead – one man, three women and 12 children. Pastor Rike said that when the attackers reached his house, they tried to force their way into their bedrooms. “I opened a backdoor, and we ran out into the dark night while the militants pursued us,” he said. “They shot my wife and two of our kids as they tried to escape.” Pastor Rike said that after killing the two children, Faith James Rike and 1-year-old Fyali James Rike, the assailants cut his wife’s abdomen with a machete. “I was shocked at what I saw,” he said. “I knew my wife would not last long, and the only thing I did was to encourage her to hold on to her faith in Jesus.” The Muslim extremists set more than 20 houses ablaze before leaving the village, he said. Pastor Rike and his son survived the attack, and he said his adopted daughter, Whulham James Rike, was injured and receiving treatment at the General Hospital in Bogoro. He said five others others were also receiving hospital treatment. Among those killed, church sources said, were Murna Ayuba; Angelina Ezekiel; Dorcas Sunday; Asabar Toma; Rhoda Joseph; Dhunhgwa Zakka; Bukata Amos; Ishaku Amos; Kalla Amos; Amos Daniel; Samidah Joel; and Changtan Joel. The Muslim jihadists also stole money and the other valuables from the Christian village as they withdrew, church sources said. The area has a history of sectarian violence, and the attack follows the death of hundreds of people in Bauchi and other northern states last month after Muslims rioted over the April 16 election of a Christian, Goodluck Jonathan, as president. He defeated a Muslim candidate, Muhammadu Buhari. Saying more than 200 church buildings were burned, Christian leaders in northern Nigeria have called for a federal probe into the violence, in which Christians mounted counter attacks. Northern Nigeria climbed to 23rd place in 2010 from 27th in 2009 on Christian support organization Open Doors’ World Watch List of nations with the worst persecution. The church where Pastor Rike ministers has about 30 members and has been in existence for more than 50 years. Those killed were members of the three churches in the village – the COCIN church, St. John’s Catholic Church and an Evangelical Church of West Africa congregation. Pastor Rike said the incident has strengthened his faith in Jesus. “Whatever is the situation, I will never forsake Christ,” he said. “All human beings are created by God, and our attackers must know that they need to abandon anything that will lead them to destroy creations of God.” (CDN) (This was taken from "The Church Report" reported May 11,2011)

As I sit here, tears overflowing my eyes, I can barely speak to tell my children to pray for this man and the others affected.

What would I do if I were in this situation?

Reading this story I am quick to say I would not deny Christ. I would like to think I would have great faith and face this trial like this man...but would I? I have to question myself.

I am ashamed to say I am so weak I would probably fail. Would I deny my Christ if five men stormed my house holding my family hostage, threatening to kill them?

Oh Father, give me great faith!

This story is not alone. There are many Christians who are suffering for their belief and faith in Christ. Moms in jail, away from their children, husbands being beat in their cells, children being tortured in front of parents to "make them deny their Lord".

Oh you, Christian, please be in prayer for our sisters and brothers in Christ. They need and covet our prayers.

Wouldn't you?

If you would like to read updates, stories of our fellow brethren, if you would like to help them, please check this site out:

Voice of Martyrs

They will send you weekly updates concerning the needs.

Let's join forces and pray for them...for one day...this family...could be yours...it could be mine.

Oh Jesus, may you grow me so strong in faith that I could say without a doubt...

“Whatever is the situation, I will never forsake Christ."

2011-05-07T22:00:00.003-05:00

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY 2011

I'm not sure how this will go over, but I've hijacked my wife's blog. I've hacked into her cyber-corner to publish to the world something that she would never allow me to do otherwise. You see, her humility would prevent her from allowing me to divulge myself of this little pleasure. So forgive me for my betrayal and thievery and hear me out.

Mi Fresita (Christina Kay, Queen Christine, Tina, Mrs. America, or whatever you may know her by), is my beloved wife and blessing from God. She has been such a blessing to me and our children. I just want to take a little time to express to you what she means to me and our children.

I won't bore you with platitudes about her being perfect, for only one has ever been perfect, and that one is Christ, the beloved Savior and Lord of my wife. She is so in love with and so unwaveringly dedicated to Christ, that she has served as a convicting example to me since I met her in 1995 on a mission trip to the Bahamas. I' won't lie and tell you that she doesn't have weaknesses or faults, but I can tell you that her failures have proven to be the very things that allows Christ to shine through her. I have watched her grow in faith, and her faith has always been something about her that I admire. Her childlike faith has always been simple, but so very strong. It is evident that in her weakness, He is made strong - she exemplifies this!

If I were to go through all the things I have learned from watching her life, it would be far too much for a blog, but let it suffice to say that because of her encouragement, we have five beautiful children and a family life that I would have missed out on, if left to my selfishness. As I study in Genesis 2 and see the help that God made for Adam, meet for him and the calling God gave to him, I can honestly tell you that her life has aided me in understanding the far reaching ramifications of that. She is a beautiful fit for me, what I needed as a partner and help in living for the glory of God.

Submissiveness is what adorns a godly woman in the scripture (1Co 11:15), and she is surely shorn with subjection to me as her covering. I have felt her prayers. Even when I have failed, she has been faithful to hold me up before the Lord and pray for me. When she could have ripped me to shreds and put my faults before me, she has loved me and served me. When she could have talked to others about my need to lead our family spiritually, she gently encouraged and lovingly let me know of her desires to be one with me in spiritual things. Actually, her submissiveness has been harder at times to deal with, because it convictingly reveals to me my great need for submission to the Holy Spirit - I am responsible and my wife looks to me to lead her. Who is sufficient for these things?! But my loving wife believes in the God that can do it through me, she loves me and longs for me - WOW!

What a momma! She is so dedicated to our children. She is so zealous to see them come into a loving and trusting relationship with the almighty God. She faithfully puts the Word of God before them. We agreed to focus more on godliness and character in our home school, and she puts this priority before them consistently. She is the epitome of what it means to nurture in the admonition of the Lord. And love kids? When we met in the Bahamas she spent her whole time with the children. Her love for children has never faded. As Zechariah grows older, she longs to have another little one in our home. She looks at the joy that each of our children brings and only wants more blessing from the hands of our Lord. She is sensitive to the weaknesses and specific needs of all of our children. She talks with each of them and asks them probing questions about sin and struggles. She prays with them and for them in specifics. What a wonderful mom!

She sacrifices, she serves, she loves, she submits, she gives herself to me completely. I could go on and on, but I must stop - she will be back from the store soon and I can't get caught!

Hear from our kids:

Kaylyn - My mommy is a good mother. She loves the Lord a lot!

Caleb - Mommy is the best mom ever! She is very sweet.

Katie - I like my mommy a lot because she is such a nice mommy.

Elijah - My mommy is good!

Zechariah - MAAAAH-Mee, MAAAAH-Mee (That says it all!).

Me - Well, you've heard a lot from me, but let me add, I find her mesmerizing, beautiful, (I promised I wouldn't go there, but) hot, sweet, sensitive, and precious. She is as fragile as when I met her.

God help me to be a protector and provider for her, give me strength to lead her and grow in spiritual unity with her.

WE LOVE YOU CHRISTINE!

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!

Update:

My Man,

I am shocked you posted this. Tears whelm my eyes as I read it. Such a wonderful gift you have given me by declaring your love to "the world".
I thank you for all the sweet, kind words you have said to me. Anything you or anyone sees in me is not of myself, but of the Lord, for He had not chosen me, my sinfulness would be even greater than it is and all I do would be for selfish reasons.

I count myself being the most blessed one with a godly husband like you. Your influence on me spiritually continually aids in my growing in the Lord. I thank you for all your patience through the trials I have gone through. Your gentle hand around my shoulder or on my leg, the tears staining your shirt, the cries of frustration you have endured yet you softly remind me of God's providence. The times you rejoice with me in accomplishing goals. For encouraging me when I fell like I will fail.

I DO love you MORE!!! ...It is true! ;)

Your Fresita

My Blessings, Little Ducklings,

I count it a privilege to be your mommy. Each one of you bring a smile to my heart in different ways. I never imagined being a mommy would be so joyful. God uses you to sanctify me, and show me sins I never knew I had a problem with.

Thank you for the kind deeds you do for me...picking flowers, heart shaped rocks, cards, wanting to help in the house, gently reminding me, in love, when I am not honoring the Lord with my tone of voice. Thank you for taking care of me when I become ill, for not complaining when I make vegetables ( at least most of the time), wanting to clean the toilets.

I love each of you dearly and pray daily and earnestly for you. My greatest desire is to see you grow into men and women who love the Lord with all your heart, mind, and soul. Seek him, my precious ones, serve Christ.

I love you!!!

Your Mommy

Sobered by the Death of Osama Bin Laden

2011-05-02T14:36:00.004-05:00

With the news of the death of Osama Bin Laden, I am sure the tv's are filled with reports, it's the talk of facebook, the death has made the headlines of all newspapers, reporters are feverishly working on an article for their next issue in magazines.

It's the "talk of the town".

I have heard people are in the streets rejoicing and celebrating over Bin Laden's death.

I am thankful for our military and the intelligences for their hard work and perseverance in finding the man who planned out many attacks killing thousands of people here in America, and other soils. I am thankful to all of their families who sacrifice their loved ones time so our country can be free.

Though his death will never bring back loved ones lost, I am sure many are thankful "justice" has been done.

This is a historic event for America, which will go down in history.

But...

I also believe this is a time to be humbled.

Humbled? Yes, you read that correctly.

Osama was a terrible, wicked person. So am I. So are you.

I know! I KNOW!!! He killed thousands of people and we haven't!

So why am I placing others on the same level as Osama?

Let me ask you a few questions...

Have you ever cheated on a test? Looked upon a person in lust?

Have you ever gone to a movie on Sunday or to a ball game?

When you were young, or even now, not listened to and obeyed your parents?

Have you ever been so mad at someone you felt hatred in your heart?

Have you ever used God's name as a curse word?

We all have been guilty of each question I asked. These questions are based on the 10 Commandments from God's Word (Exodus 20:3-17).

I am guilty of not keeping these commandments. I have broken all 10. More than once.

I haven't killed thousands of people, but I have had bitterness in my heart.

Today, Osama Bin Laden is in hell. If the Holy Spirit had not changed my heart, and I died, I would be right there with him.

Why did he choose me and not Bin Laden? Nothing but grace.

"For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is a gift from God; not of works, lest any man should boast." Ephesians 2:8-9

If it were not for the work of God in my life...His grace...it could be me who was out there plotting evil acts upon others.

It could be you.

I know some who read this, are not christians, yet you live a "good" life. You work hard, nice to others. Giving. Trustworthy. You even might go to church once in a while. OR every Sunday.

Yet you do not trust, believe and have faith alone in Christ. Some believe Jesus came to the earth and died on the cross, but is he your Lord? Is He your everything?

Our sin is so great. Everyone of us was born a sinner. We all were born capable of the evil acts of Osama Bin Laden...and worse.

Yet because of reasons not of our own understanding, Christ has shown us mercy. Even the unbelievers.

God has restrained us by His gracious hands and has kept us from being as wicked as we could be.

Just like Osama, we sin.

We will all die one day and go before God. We all deserve the wrath and curse of God.

Only if we truly repent, turn away from our sins, seek Christ, believe and trust in him... will the blood of the Lamb cover our sins and we will be welcomed into the heavens with our dear Lord.

For those of you who do not have Christ in your life, He is not Lord, Ruler of your life...you will also come before God, Creator of all things. You will be judged......just like Osama. Good works won't help you out.

"And to you who are troubled rest with us, when the Lord Jesus shall be revealed from heaven with His mighty angels, in flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God...who shall be punished with everlasting destruction from the presence of the Lord, and the glory of His power" 1Thessalonians 1:7-9

I am truly humbled that I am a child of God. That He has so graciously kept me from being just like Bin Laden. I am humbled I am not getting what I deserve...the wrath and curse of God...eternal punishment in hell, not only physically, but even worse...without the grace, mercy and presence of God.

May we, on this historical day of the death of Osama Bin Laden, be mindful of the grace God has shown in our own lives and be eternally grateful...

Sunday Psalm

2011-04-02T22:13:00.000-05:00

Psalm 146

Praise ye the LORD. Praise the LORD, O my soul.

While I live will I praise the LORD:

I will sing praises unto my God while I have any being.

Put not your trust in princes,

nor in the son of man, in whom there is no help.

His breath goeth forth, he returneth to his earth;

in that very day his thoughts perish.

Happy is he that hath the God of Jacob for his help,

whose hope is in the LORD his God:

Which made heaven, and earth, the sea, and all that therein is:

which keepeth truth for ever:

Which executeth judgment for the oppressed:

which giveth food to the hungry.

The LORD looseth the prisoners:

The LORD openeth the eyes of the blind

The LORD raiseth them that are bowed down:

The LORD loveth the righteous:

The LORD preserveth the strangers;

He relieveth the fatherless and widow:

but the way of the wicked he turneth upside down.

The LORD shall reign for ever,

even thy God, O Zion, unto all generations.

Praise ye the LORD!

Sunday Hymn-Amazing Grace

2011-03-20T07:10:00.002-05:00

Amazing Grace

John Newton (1725-1807)

Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound,
That saved a wretch like me.
I once was lost but now am found,
Was blind, but now I see.

T'was Grace that taught my heart to fear.
And Grace, my fears relieved.
How precious did that Grace appear
The hour I first believed.

Through many dangers, toils and snares
I have already come;
'Tis Grace that brought me safe thus far
and Grace will lead me home.

The Lord has promised good to me.
His word my hope secures.
He will my shield and portion be,
As long as life endures.

Yea, when this flesh and heart shall fail,
And mortal life shall cease,
I shall possess within the veil,
A life of joy and peace.

When we've been here ten thousand years
Bright shining as the sun.
We've no less days to sing God's praise
Than when we've first begun.

Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound,
That saved a wretch like me.
I once was lost but now am found,
Was blind, but now I see.

In Who's Strength?

2011-03-17T15:06:00.004-05:00

Recently, I received an e-mail asking a few questions:

"How do you know when you are trying to "do" life in your own strength? How do you draw the Lord's strength? Is it just through prayer? Meditation? Do you struggle with this?"

This is a very good question which I believe all us children of God need to examine in our own lives continually. It is so easy to fight battles in our strength but in the end...it makes things harder.

There are some things we do naturally in our strength. We pick up our food and eat, carry heavy bags of groceries in (when our husbands are not around), flip the mattress over 2 times a year (do people really do that?)

Then there is the the emotional/spiritual strength side.

So how do you tell how if you are doing it in your own strength?

During a trial or just life in general, if you experience anxiety, worry, sleepless nights, just plain ol stress, I believe you are trusting in your own strength.

Simple as that.

So, examine your heart.

When something arises, do you find yourself thinking a lot about it?

Do you lose sleep or sleep too much?

Are you angry?

So sad where your thoughts are constantly thinking of the negative?

Irritable, snapping at others?

Start to eat more to comfort yourself?

Not eat?

Watch tv to numb the thoughts for awhile?

There are a multiple of things you might do.

The problem is, when you try to "deal" with things in your own strength, I believe this is breaking a commandment.

The 1st Commandment.

"Thou shalt have no other gods before Me." (Exodus 20:3)

Anything that comes before Christ is an idol. A god.

Whether it be your children, sports, ministry in the church, OR trusting in YOURSELF to get through trials.

We now know what trying to do life in our own strength looks like, now let's discuss... How you draw the Lord's strength.

To be strong in our Lord Jesus Christ, we must die to our flesh.

We can not be of God AND flesh (our ways) because flesh is enemy of God.

Again, if anything comes before God, it is an idol. Including self.

If you have examined your heart and find yourself trying to live in your own strength, you must confess.

Confess this sin to God. Repent.

Admit you are lost without Christ.

Tell Him, if you are sincere, that you want Christ and His strength only.

Then you begin to pursue and train in the ways of how to have strength in the Lord.

It will not be as easy as just praying. It will take some hard work.

You need to know first of all, that nothing can separate you from God.

"For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor any creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord." (Romans 8:38-39)

If God cares about the birds and the animals of this earth, He takes care of His creation, how much more will He care for us? It is a lack of faith to not trust in this (Matthew 6:25-34).Trust that our Lord God is in control of all circumstances.

Know that everything that happens in your life has been ordained by our great God for our own good.

"And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God..." Romans 8:28

Every trial, though it may be hard, is for our own good. We do not see the whole picture, but we serve a great God who does and knows all things.

Once you have these truths deep in your heart and mind, begin to pursue God's strength.

How?

Pray.

Start to memorize scripture on these matters. Write them on little cards if you have to and post them around the house.

Psalms68:35 "...the God of Israel is He that giveth strength and power to His people"

Matthew 11:28 "Come unto Me, al ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you peace."

1 Peter 5:7 ""Casting all cares upon Him, for He careth for you."

there are many more but I will leave that for YOU to get into God's Word and search.

You also need to captivate your thoughts.

When you start to doubt, worry, get anxious...

Pray...

go to the verses you have looked up, meditate on God's faithfulness.

Praise God in these storms. Praise Him, even in the deepest of times, even when you don't feel it.

If you have trouble on your own, go to the Word. Look in Psalms. They are full of prayers to God in times of distress.
Read Psalms 46. Psalms 88. There are many more.

And last, wait. Wait upon Christ, with anticipation, on how He will use this trial in your life.

"He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might He increaseth strength.
Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall:

But they that that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint." (Isaiah 40:29-31)

Do I ever struggle with this? Yes. I am still in training, pursuing these things, and I will be until the day when I go to be with the Lord.

But the Lord has been so gracious to teach these things to me more and more in my walk with Him.

I still fail, but I am learning to trust more and more in Christ and His strength and not my own.

I now can honestly say, in the deepest of trials, I am learning to depend on His strength.

And if trials is what it takes for me to grow in HIS strength, then I desire these times, for I desire my Lord to be my complete strength. I will count them joy and a gift from Him.

It's not easy, but I will pursue His strength.

Will you?

"This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success. Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the LORD thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest." ( Joshua 1:8-9)

Sunday Hymn

2011-03-05T22:18:00.002-06:00

"Take My Life, and Let It Be"

by Frances R. Havergal,1874

Take my life and let it be
Consecrated, Lord, to Thee,
Take my moments and my days,
Let them flow in endless praise.

Take my hands and let them move
At the impulse of Thy love.
Take my feet and let them be
Swift and beautiful for Thee.

Take my voice and let me sing,
Always, only for my King.
Take my lips and let them be
Filled with messages from Thee.

Take my silver and my gold,
Not a mite would I withhold.
Take my intellect and use
Every pow’r as Thou shalt choose.

Take my will and make it Thine,
It shall be no longer mine.
Take my heart, it is Thine own,
It shall be Thy royal throne.

Take my love, my Lord, I pour
At Thy feet its treasure store.
Take myself and I will be
Ever, only, all for Thee.

I could not find a song to match perfectly, but this a pretty version.
(make sure you press "stop"on playlist before playing)

Happy 2nd Birthday Zechariah!

2011-03-04T07:28:00.008-06:00

Two years and 8 1/2 months ago, AJ and I learned of our newest blessing from our Lord in my womb. It was an exciting time for us. We were overjoyed and and I was VERY sick. At my first drs. appt, they did an ultrasound to check how far along I was.

During this time, the technician and dr. noticed something unusual about my blessing. He had many problems. To read more on this and my feelings, go here.

As the months passed, we were anticipating this wonderful blessing from God. With many in the delivery room to assist in the troubles that were predicted by man, my little boy was born.

Zechariah David.

He was born healthy. Though some would say, "Praise the Lord" and that we did, we would love our Zechariah even if he was not "normal" according to our world's standards.

7 weeks later he was admitted to the hospital and later to find out he had Pertusis. Not until recently did I realize the danger and how serious this illness was for a young one at this age. He should not be alive this day, but our Great God had other plans.

This picture is not the best quality to it but it has so much meaning to me.

After Zechariah being lifeless for the day, with an oxygen level in the 60's and his life wasting away, he was litarally slowly dying before my eyes. People were rushing around, drs were being called. When things started to settle down, and he was now concious, his eyes stayed fixed on me. I will never forget it. I praised God through the whole storm, giving Him praise for whatever the outcome would be.

It was a long 6 months of concern and never leaving him alone for even a minute, but our Lord preordained for our baby to be healed. "Thank you God"

As a baby, he was more on the fussy side. Always wanting to be close to me, but I took this as a blessing, thanking God for having him by my side. Yet as he has grown older, he has become a happy baby, and now toddler.

Though Zechariah has always been considered really small for his age, he has been our biggest and chubbiest baby.

Here he is at his 1st birthday...having his first "sweet"... a banana.

Some facts about Zechariah...

His nicknames are Cracker Zech and Zecharoni (thanks Elijah A.).

He loves to make faces at us...

Hates his hair to be cut...

Loves the water...

Likes to sit and play under tables and chairs.
Likes to stand while eating...Zecharoni likes to try and keep up with his siblings at times, but other times, he rather sit and play with cars.
He already has a sense of humor...giving you a stoic face and we you turn your head...gives a sly smile.

Zechariah took his first steps at 18 months...

but he did not want me to know so he continued to do his crab crawl (when I was not around he would take a few steps...so I am told)
and began walking regularly at 22 months.

He says a few words...Mommy...E... and bye-bye.
He attempts to say look "deek", Katie Faith "Tee Tee"
and please "P".

Cracker Zech is full of character and continues to blossom and try new things each week.

His weight is around 17 pounds and

his latest new found joy is running around with his hands in the air! "Our Precious Zechariah, Daddy and I are so blessed to call you our son. We look forward to watching all the new things you will learn this next year. You are a true gift from God. We love you and look forward to see how the Lord will use you for His glory. Happy 2nd Birthday!"

Happy Birthday Elijah!!!

2011-03-01T21:28:00.001-06:00

Today our precious Elijah Bear has turned 4 years old!

We have had a good day. We started our day off with the breakfast of his choice...

homemade macaroni and cheese topped with 4 candles...

while sitting in his special chair decorated with feathers, ball stickers, balloons and streamers.

Daddy came home for lunch to celebrate it with us. Not much was done during the day except Katie Faith did school with him and he took a nap.

When daddy arrived home from work, we all piled up in the van and headed to Pizza Hut...Elijah's choice. He enjoyed his dinner and we even let him have sweet tea since it was his birthday.

When we arrived home, it was time to open presents. Each sibling took great time and care to make Elijah a card and pick out a gift for him.

Katie Faith gave Elijah her favorite blue bowl. I made sure she was ok and knew it was now going to belong to him, but she insisted she wanted him to have it since he loves blue.
Kaylyn made a card and printed out a picture of the two them. Elijah's face lit up when he saw the picture.

E also made him a card and gave him a lot of little goodies.

Now it was time for his present from mommy and daddy. We usually let the kids pick out a book for their birthdays, but we decided on something different this one time.

First, we made him close his eyes and wait...as E brought in his gift from us...

his FIRST bike!
He was very surprised and excited!!!

A few facts about our Elijah Bear...

Some of his favorite things are balls, the color blue, his froggy, pizza, and macaroni and cheese.

He loves to help me in the kitchen and follow his daddy around when he is home to help with manly duties.

Elijah is bashful, yet assertive when he "needs" to be.

He can dress himself, although he might put his pants on backwards most the time. ;)

He likes to snuggle, and he always has one hand on his pants to hold them up (not even a belt helps).

"Elijah Bear, Daddy and Mommy love you very much! You are a true joy and treasure to our lives. We pray God will give us the wisdom and knowledge to raise you for the Lord and you will become a man whose heart follows and serves Jesus Christ. Happy 4th Birthday, our BIG boy!!!!!!"

Sunday Hymn

2011-02-19T22:59:00.001-06:00

Christ the Lord Is Risen Today
Lyrics ~ Charles Wesley, 1707-1788

Stanza 1:

Christ the Lord is ris'n today, Alleluia!

Sons of men and angels say, Alleluia!

Raise your joys and triumphs high, Alleluia!

Sing, ye heav'ns, and earth reply, Alleluia!

Stanza 2:

Love's redeeming work is done, Alleluia!

Fought the fight, the battle won, Alleluia!

Death in vain forbids Him rise, Alleluia!

Christ has opened Paradise, Alleluia!

Stanza 3:

Lives again our glorious King, Alleluia!

Where, O death, is now thy sting? Alleluia!

Dying once He all doth save, Alleluia!

Where thy victory, O grave? Alleluia!

Stanza 4:

Soar we now where Christ has led, Alleluia!

Foll'wing our exalted Head, Alleluia!

Made like Him, like Him we rise, Alleluia!

Ours the cross, the grave, the skies, Alleluia!

Stanza 5:

Hail the Lord of earth and heaven, Alleluia!

Praise to Thee by both be given, Alleluia!

Thee we greet triumphant now, Alleluia!

Hail the Resurrection, thou, Alleluia!

Stanza 6:

King of glory, soul of bliss, Alleluia!

Everlasing life is this, Alleluia!

Thee to know, Thy power to prove, Alleluia!

Thus to sing, and thus to love, Alleluia!

(To Listen to song, please push pause on playlist)

Does He Amaze You?

2011-02-16T22:44:00.004-06:00

He does me.

I am speaking of my Heavenly Father.

I sin so much. Day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute.

Yet, Christ died for me.

I am going to be honest.

If someone kept hurting me over and over, time and time again, It would be hard for me to care and love them.

But He loves me.

It is MY sin that put Christ on the cross. To be beaten, spit upon, mocked.

Yet He forgives me.

He intercedes for me.

Wow....Selah.

I don't deserve this kind of love.

Isn't Christ amazing?

I am in awe of His unfailing love to me. In spite of my self.

He tells me in His Word,He "carries me under His wings" (Ps. 91;4).

I don't deserve this.

But it is not about me.

It is about Christ and His glory.

Among the gods there is none like You, O Lord;
Nor are there any works like Your works.
I will praise You, O Lord my God, with all my heart,
And I will glorify Your name forevermore.
For great is Your mercy toward me,
You have delivered my soul from the depths of Sheol. (Psalms 86:8;12-13)

Thank you, my Lord, for your mercy and grace. I deserve to go to hell, but you chose to save me.

I am in awe of You.

To YOU be the glory forever and ever!!!!!!

Sunday Hymn

2011-02-12T22:21:00.003-06:00

Be Still My Soul Hymn

Be still, my soul: the Lord is on thy side.
Bear patiently the cross of grief or pain.
Leave to thy God to order and provide;
In every change, He faithful will remain.
Be still, my soul: thy best, thy heavenly Friend
Through thorny ways leads to a joyful end.

Be still, my soul: thy God doth undertake
To guide the future, as He has the past.
Thy hope, thy confidence let nothing shake;
All now mysterious shall be bright at last.
Be still, my soul: the waves and winds still know
His voice Who ruled them while He dwelt below.

Be still, my soul: when dearest friends depart,
And all is darkened in the vale of tears,
Then shalt thou better know His love, His heart,
Who comes to soothe thy sorrow and thy fears.
Be still, my soul: thy Jesus can repay
From His own fullness all He takes away.

Be still, my soul: the hour is hastening on
When we shall be forever with the Lord.
When disappointment, grief and fear are gone,
Sorrow forgot, love’s purest joys restored.
Be still, my soul: when change and tears are past
All safe and blessèd we shall meet at last.

Be still, my soul: begin the song of praise
On earth, be leaving, to Thy Lord on high;
Acknowledge Him in all thy words and ways,
So shall He view thee with a well pleased eye.
Be still, my soul: the Sun of life divine
Through passing clouds shall but more brightly shine.

(Turn off music on side bar before playing video)

Sunday

2011-02-12T22:19:00.001-06:00

Wordless Wednesday: My Prince!

2011-02-09T11:21:00.004-06:00

I Love You More, My Prince AJ!!!

Your Fresita

"His mouth is most sweet; yea, he is altogether lovely. This is my beloved, and this is my friend."
Song 'of Solomon 5:16

Banana Apple Bread

2011-02-03T21:20:00.005-06:00

We try to eat healthy in our house. So I try to find recipes we like and change them to fit our healthy lifestyle. At times this is a challenge and my recipe is no good, other times with a little tweaking here and there, we end up with a recipe we are happy with.

Here is one recipe I have tried and the family loves.

Banana Apple Bread

Original ingredients:

1 3/4 cups flour
3/4 teaspoon baking soda
1/4 teaspoon salt
1 cup sugar
A pinch of cinnamon
2 eggs
2/3 cup vegetable oil
3 tablespoons milk
1/2 tsp vanilla
2 large bananas (mashed)
1/2 cup nuts (chopped)
1 large apple (peeled, cored, chopped)

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My Changes (in blue):

1 3/4 cup whole wheat pastry flour
3/4 teaspoon baking soda
1/4 teaspoon sea salt
1 teaspoon Stevia powder extract(instead of sugar)
A dash of cinnamon
Flaxseed mixture (instead of eggs...healthy and good for cholesterol )
2/3 cups applesauce (instead of oil)
1/2 teaspoon vanilla
2 large bananas (extra ripe)
1/2 cup nuts (optional)
1 large apple(peeled,cored, chopped)

Directions:

Preheat oven at 350 degrees.

Mix together flour... Stevia...

baking soda...sea salt...and cinnamon.

Add milk...vanilla...and apple sauce...

followed by the flaxseed mixture...

Stir well.
( If it seems a little dry, add milk a "splash" at a time. You do not want it to be to thin.)

Grab your chopped apples and mashed bananas...

and mix them in with the flour mixture.

Fill your previously greased loaf pan or muffin pans about 1/2-3/4 full.

Add any extra berries or nuts you would like...we usually add blueberries and whatever nut I have on hand...

Place it in the oven...

and cook for about 20 min. A loaf pan will take close to an hour.
Stick a knife in, if it comes out clean, they are done.

When finished cooking, place muffins (in this case) on a plate on the table and wait for the family to come running for a treat when they smell the great aroma.

Just a note or two: I usually triple this recipe. A normal recipe will make 2 loaves or about 24 muffins.

I also like to under cook these a little. If you use eggs, it needs to be completely done.

Enjoy!

Sunday Hymn

2011-01-29T22:07:00.003-06:00

How Great Thou Art

Lyrics ~ Carl Boberg, 1859 - 1940

O Lord my God,

When I in awesome wonder

Consider all

The works Thy Hand hath made,

I see the stars,

I hear the mighty thunder,

Thy pow'r throughout

The universe displayed;

Stanza 2:

When through the woods

And forest glades I wander

I hear the birds

Sing sweetly in the trees;

When I look down

From lofty mountain grandeur

And hear the brook

And feel the gentle breeze;

Refrain:

Then sings my soul,

My Saviour God, to Thee,

How great Thou art!

Then sings my soul,

My Saviour God, to Thee,

How great Thou art!

Stanza 3:

When Christ shall come,

With shouts of acclamation,

And take me home,

What joy shall fill my heart!

Then I shall bow

In humble adoration

And there proclaim,

"My God, how great Thou art!"

Refrain:

Then sings my soul,

My Saviour God, to Thee,

How great Thou art!

Then sings my soul,

My Saviour God, to Thee,

How great Thou art!

(If you would like to listen to this song, please hit 'stop' first on my playlist)

O Sacred Head, Now Wounded

2011-01-23T07:07:00.000-06:00

"O Sacred Head, Now Wounded"
by Paul Gerhardt, 1607-1676

1. O sacred Head, now wounded,
With grief and shame weighed down,
Now scornfully surrounded
With thorns, Thine only crown.
O sacred Head, what glory,
What bliss, till now was Thine!
Yet, though despised and gory,
I joy to call Thee mine.

2. Men mock and taunt and jeer Thee,
Thou noble countenance,
Though mighty worlds shall fear Thee
And flee before Thy glance.
How art thou pale with anguish,
With sore abuse and scorn!
How doth Thy visage languish
That once was bright as morn!

3. Now from Thy cheeks has vanished
Their color, once so fair;
From Thy red lips is banished
The splendor that was there.
Grim Death, with cruel rigor,
Hath robbed Thee of Thy life;
Thus Thou has lost Thy vigor,
Thy strength, in this sad strife.

Whatcha Looking At?

2011-01-18T15:46:00.005-06:00

Have you ever gone through a time when you felt like things were not going smoothly in your life?

It might be a troubled marriage, a troubled child, a friend close who has hurt you, loved one diagnosed with something, single and wanting to meet that "special" one. It might me a failed adoption, or that sin in you that just won't go away. In-laws who treat you like dirt, financial troubles, or building a house and all the chaos that goes with it.

Whatever the situation, you are overwhelmed. Sleepless nights, tension headaches, worry, anxiety.

I have had moments like these.

Times when a situation has occurred and my mind starts wander.

I start thinking of the "what if's", my appetite changes, sleepless nights, tears rolling down the face, snapping at those around me, angry, a loss of desire to do much.

These are hard times. Times I have struggled through.

When a trial enters into my life, it usually starts out like this...

"I do not like this. Ouch, this hurts...but I will trust in you God for in your Word it says, 'And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son..." (Romans 8:28-29)

He comforts me, but I still hurt.

I start thinking of my situation again. The anger starts to creep in.

I grab my Bible and open up to the Psalms. Chapter 88 in this case...

"O LORD God of my salvation, I have cried day and night before thee:
Let my prayer come before thee: incline thine ear unto my cry;
For my soul is full of troubles: and my life draweth nigh unto the grave.
I am counted with them that go down into the pit: I am as a man that hath no strength..."

My mind is at war. I start quoting scripture. Anything I know...even if it does not pertain. I sing praises to our Heavenly Father.

But I always come back to how I do not like my trial. I begin to dwell on it.

In these times, what am I looking at?

My trial or God?

I want to say God, but if I am truly looking at Him, would I be having sleepless nights, loss of appetite, and so on? Am I trusting in my Heavenly Father who has ordained all things for my good?

I am reminded (thanks My Man!) of the true account of one of the miracles by Jesus in Matt. 14:22-33:

"Immediately Jesus made His disciples get into the boat and go before Him to the other side, while He sent the multitudes away. And when He had sent the multitudes away, He went up on the mountain by Himself to pray. Now when evening came, He was alone there. But the boat was now in the middle of the sea, tossed by the waves, for the wind was contrary. Now in the fourth watch of the night Jesus went to them, walking on the sea. And when the disciples saw Him walking on the sea, they were troubled, saying, "It is a ghost!" And they cried out for fear. But immediately Jesus spoke to them, saying, "Be of good cheer! It is I; do not be afraid." And Peter answered Him and said, "Lord, if it is You, command me to come to You on the water." So He said, "Come." And when Peter had come down out of the boat, he walked on the water to go to Jesus. But when he saw that the wind was boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink he cried out, saying, "Lord, save me!" And immediately Jesus stretched out His hand and caught him, and said to him, "O you of little faith, why did you doubt?" And when they got into the boat, the wind ceased. Then those who were in the boat came and worshiped Him, saying, 'Truly You are the Son of God.'"

The Lord has graciously convicted me over the past 2 years of my lack of faith in Him. I am ashamed to admit this, but I must be honest and confess.

He has showed me I am to truly put all hope and trust in Him.

I always thought I did, but due to answered prayers, God showed me my weakness and sin.

I can honestly say that my faith has grown because of the gifts of trials.

Men will let you down (Psa 146:3 Put not your trust in princes, nor in the son of man, in whom there is no help. ), but my God will always be faithful!!!

Yes, I knew it in my mind, but in my heart...I obviously doubted.

I thank God for my trials, for they truly are a gift from Him to grow me in Him and less of myself.

A Gift. I would not have said this 2 years ago.

I now can honestly say, God as my witness, I embrace my trials.

Do they hurt? YES!!!

Do I stumble? YES!!!

BUT...

I serve a GREAT God whom loves me so much that He convicts me of my sin, and continues to conform me into His image. Even if it will hurt.

How about you? Are you going through something? Have you been through something recently?

What have YOU been looking at? Dig deep, cry out to God, and ask Him to show you...

Do you, like Peter, see that the wind is boisterous, are you afraid, or are you keeping your eyes fixed upon Christ, the author and finisher of our faith.

Psalms 63:8 "My soul followeth hard after thee: thy right hand upholdeth me."

Happy Birthday Kaylyn!!!

2010-11-29T08:23:00.007-06:00

10 years ago today, the Lord blessed us with our firstborn daughter,
Kaylyn.

Kaylyn is a sweet girl who loves imitating animals (and is quite good at it),crafts, the Georgia Bulldogs, dressing up and playing old fashioned.Her favorite food is tuna casserole and favorite colors are pink, blue, and red(for the Bulldogs). She is our quiet one but can give quite a squeal when tickled!!!

Kaylyn is a sweet girl, who amazes me in how long-suffering she is, she is sensitive to the ways of God. Encouraging others (including me) to do the right thing if she sees it is dishonoring God. A girl of modesty and already is thinking of ways she wants to honor her husband when she gets married.

Our prayer for Kaylyn is that she would submit her life to the Lord Jesus Christ, be pure in her ways and thoughts, and continue to grow and train in becoming a homemaker.

We love you, Kaylyn...Pumpkin, you are a true joy and blessing in our lives!!!

Sunday Hymn

2010-11-27T21:55:00.005-06:00

"And Can It Be"

Written by Charles Wesley

And can it be that I should gain
An interest in the Savior’s blood?
Died He for me, who caused His pain—
For me, who Him to death pursued?
Amazing love! How can it be,
That Thou, my God, shouldst die for me?
Amazing love! How can it be,
That Thou, my God, shouldst die for me?

’Tis mystery all: th’Immortal dies:
Who can explore His strange design?
In vain the firstborn seraph tries
To sound the depths of love divine.
’Tis mercy all! Let earth adore,
Let angel minds inquire no more.
’Tis mercy all! Let earth adore;
Let angel minds inquire no more.

He left His Father’s throne above
So free, so infinite His grace—
Emptied Himself of all but love,
And bled for Adam’s helpless race:
’Tis mercy all, immense and free,
For O my God, it found out me!
’Tis mercy all, immense and free,
For O my God, it found out me!

Long my imprisoned spirit lay,
Fast bound in sin and nature’s night;
Thine eye diffused a quickening ray—
I woke, the dungeon flamed with light;
My chains fell off, my heart was free,
I rose, went forth, and followed Thee.
My chains fell off, my heart was free,
I rose, went forth, and followed Thee.

Still the small inward voice I hear,
That whispers all my sins forgiven;
Still the atoning blood is near,
That quenched the wrath of hostile Heaven.
I feel the life His wounds impart;
I feel the Savior in my heart.
I feel the life His wounds impart;
I feel the Savior in my heart.

No condemnation now I dread;
Jesus, and all in Him, is mine;
Alive in Him, my living Head,
And clothed in righteousness divine,
Bold I approach th’eternal throne,
And claim the crown, through Christ my own.
Bold I approach th’eternal throne,
And claim the crown, through Christ my own.

My First First Haircut-by Zechariah

2010-11-16T21:59:00.009-06:00

"I couldn't go to a hair salon,'These are for girls', my big brother,E, insisted. We had to go to his and daddy's barber...Here I am unsure of what is about to happen...

First comes that scary, loud razor...

Good, he walked away, he must be all done......NO!!! Not again!!!...
I don't like this!...Don't touch me!!! I'm telling my mommy!...

Oh NO!!!Not the razor again!...
When is this going to end?!!!...
Where did all my hair go?...

I guess it wasn't TO bad...I kind-of like my new cut!"

Sunday Hymn

2010-11-13T22:21:00.005-06:00

"How Deep The Father's Love For Us"
By: Stuart Townend

How deep the Father's love for us,
How vast beyond all measure
That He should give His only Son
To make a wretch His treasure

How great the pain of searing loss,
The Father turns His face away
As wounds which mar the chosen One,
Bring many sons to glory

Behold the Man upon a cross,
My sin upon His shoulders
Ashamed I hear my mocking voice,
Call out among the scoffers

It was my sin that held Him there
Until it was accomplished
His dying breath has brought me life
I know that it is finished

I will not boast in anything
No gifts, no power, no wisdom
But I will boast in Jesus Christ
His death and resurrection

Why should I gain from His reward?
I cannot give an answer
But this I know with all my heart
His wounds have paid my ransom
(REPEAT)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

2010-11-11T15:53:00.006-06:00

8 years ago today the Lord blessed us with our oldest son, Caleb "E".

Caleb is quite a character who loves joking around, wrestling, reading, using his tools, making faces and school. His favorite color has always been yellow and he loves ice-cream.
E is passionate for making sure everyone has a Bible, passing them out to neighbors, friends, or asking if we can send orphans Bibles. He also has a heart to put out tracts about the Gospel.
Our prayer is that the Lord would one day save his soul and use these passions for his glory.

We love you, Yellow Man "E", you are a true blessing in our lives.

HAPPY 8th BIRTHDAY!!!

I Have Been Tagged!

2010-10-20T11:13:00.003-05:00

I don't usually answer to these but since I really like Joelle, and she has been a blessing to me in so many ways, I decided I would participate.

1. What is the one thing you find the most difficult about homeschooling?

Trying to change a dirty diaper while helping with phonics... with another calling in the background for my help-meanwhile the phone is ringing, the rats are staring at me to be fed...oh yea...and a 19 month old sitting on my lap. So I would definitely say the chaos at times that seem to happen at least once a week! :)

2. What is the one thing in your children (or one of your children) that you have the hardest time to deal with or manage?

One of my children has a hard time NOT being bold about how they feel about things and how a situation goes towards friends and siblings. We have prayed, practiced, disciplined, but it seems to not help...at times. My prayer this child would grow in a love for the Lord and use this weakness and turn it into a tool in which they use mightily for the Lord and be BOLD for Him!

3. What is the most amazing place you have ever visited?

I love the Atlantic Ocean where I am from in South Florida...as I look out into the water and onto the horizon, it looks never ending. The view is beautiful, the blueish green sea, blue skies, white caps from waves. The scene is often breath taking with it's beauty.As I look out, I always think of God. His attributes of never-ending grace to me, His child. His love that goes from the east to the west,His never-ending compassion. I "see" the beauty of God in His long-suffering with me, in spite of my incredible sin. And when I close my eyes and listen to the rumble of the waves crashing the shore, they remind me of God's great power. The power to do as He desires because HE IS GOD!

4. What do you like to do when you are alone?

Read a good book, check blogs, and ponder.

5. How many days of the week (on average) does your scheduling gets followed?

Depends on the week and what is going on, but I would say most days I stay on track. I don't have a strict schedule, I am pretty laid back, so it is actually hard to break. :)

6. Are you the kind that lets the folded laundry sit awhile before putting away, or it gets put away right away?

Yes and No. If it is during school time, they will sit until I can sneak away for a moment. But I don't fold all the clothes. Each kid, except the two youngest, folds and puts their clothes away. The three year old is responsible for washcloths and his shorts only at this point. The towels are divided up between the kids.

7. Do you plan the Christmas season out?

No, I always intend to, but I rarely do.

Thanks Joelle for the tag. It was fun!...Now I am off to help with a math problem...

Tigers play the Gators!!!

2010-10-09T15:38:00.005-05:00

Today is a big day in our house:

The LSU Tigers

plays

the Florida Gators...

But we are not unified on who we want to win.

AJ, Kaylyn and E root for the Tigers...

But Katie Faith, Elijah, Zechariah and I have better sense...we root for the FLORIDA GATORS!

Here is Elijah's message to all you Loser State University Fans!!!

Translation: "Go AlliGATORS!!! Eat Those Tigers!!!"

Can't wait 'till the game tonight!

Dessert

2010-09-24T07:03:00.012-05:00

Last night's dinner was good and then came dessert. I decided to try a new recipe...Sopapilla Crunch. The family was glad I did!

I took my tortillas out and cut them in strips...

Heated two good dollops of butter (oh my!) in the skillet...

Placed my tortillas in the pan...

When they begin to puff, flip over. Continue to flip back and forth until desired crispness.

Take out and arrange on a plate...

Poor on Raw Honey...

Be generous with the honey as it adds great flavor.

Sprinkle on some cinnamon sugar (gasp!)...

Add a few scoops of vanilla ice cream ( double gasp!!!)...

Grab that honey and cinnamon sugar once more...drizzle over the ice-cream....and Voila! You have yourself Sopapilla Crunch!!!

Everybody grab a piece and DIG IN!!!*For those of you who know me well...raise your hand if you about had a heart attack knowing I used all that butter and sugar (you know it was killing me!). My kids thought something was wrong with me! :)

Sopapilla Crunch

Prep Time: 5 minutes
Cook Time: 5 minutes

Ingredients:

1 flour tortilla, large

2 tablespoons butter

vanilla ice cream

honey

cinnamon sugar

confectioner's sugar(optional)

Directions:

1. Cut tortilla into strips of your preference..

2. Melt butter in skillet.

3. Add strips to melted butter on medium to low heat.

4.When tortillas begin to puff flip over.

5. Cook until lightly browned and crispy ( to your likeness) on each side.

6. Arrange cooked strips on a serving plate.

7. Drizzle with honey and sprinkle with cinnamon sugar.

8. Add vanilla ice cream and top with another drizzle of honey and sprinkle of cinnamon sugar.

9. Serve immediately. ( I precooked the tortillas earlier in the day and they were fine. Probably would be better if served hot.)

My thoughts on this dessert was it was "ok". Everyone else loved it and my husband said it tasted like fried ice-cream. I will most likely make it again as it was very easy and quick. I doubled the recipe but next time I will triple it as it goes quickly.

And NO!!! Zechariah did not get any!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY STEPHANIE!!!

2010-09-23T10:01:00.011-05:00

Dearest Stephanie,

You are a wonderful, talented young lady, with much life ahead of you, Lord-willing.

Our prayer for you on this special day, would be that you would take this next year to stop, in the busyness of life and take time to smell flowers, watch a beautiful sunset, listen to the birds chirp early in the morning. Embrace the life God has given you and live for His glory.

If you were here we would celebrate you with chicken potpie...

and a cherry piewith 19 candles on top!

Happy 19th Birthday Stephanie!!!

We Love You,
Your Family down south in Texas

Sneak Peak...

2010-09-23T07:47:00.006-05:00

What are we having for dinner you ask? Or maybe not but I am telling anyways!!!

Amy's Chicken Enchiladas (more like burritos) with a creamy sour cream sauce...( this picture does NOT do it justice)

Green enchiladas...still working on these...

Homemade Guacamole with chips...

Zatarain's Spanish rice...

homemade refined beans..and just for fun, we may add some Mexican music!

For dessert...

YOU will just have to wait till tomorrow and see!!!

We will be eating around 5:30 if anyone wants to join us! All are welcome!!!

Hasta la vista, Baby!!!

Dream Come True

2010-09-17T14:23:00.018-05:00

Have you ever had a dream that when you woke up you wished it could come true?

Every morning during breakfast I ask the children about their dreams. I enjoy hearing how their little minds work and think in their dreams. Sometimes crazy, sometimes good, they have bad dreams, dreams they call "foolish" because it was something they know God would not be honored with if it were true. Times when they can't remember, and dreams they would love to come true.

This past week, as Kaylyn slept hard and sound, she had a really good dream.

She was so excited about this dream she told me as soon as she woke. And when it was her turn at the breakfast table, she excitedly told her siblings of this great dream.

As I listened again, I decided I wanted to bless my precious daughter and make her dream come true.

So that afternoon, I began working on making it happen.

The girls and I gathered in the kitchen, got out our ingredients and got to work.

First we made dough. Then the girls took some and made shapes for each member in the family.

Each bread stick was made with much care and thought, choosing a shape that would be special to that loved one...

Then on our PIZZA dough, we spread our sauce on...

followed by cheese.

After baking, I let Kaylyn have the honor of cutting the pizza...

We dished it out along with the special shaped bread sticks, gave thanks to the Lord and began eating...

"Our whole family was sitting around the table eating pizza......

(some were playing with their "trucks")

and we were reading a story from 'Story Time with Grandma'. "I see Kaylyn's eyes beaming with excitement as I hug her and tell her..."Sometimes dreams come true!"

It might be a simple dream to others, but it was a big dream come true for Kaylyn!

I was glad to be able to make this dream come true for my loving daughter. She brings much joy to my life and I was glad to be able to bless her in this simple way.

I love you Kaylyn, I pray you have many more dreams come true!

Have you ever had a dream come true?

I Am Back!

2010-09-14T21:00:00.014-05:00

It is hard to believe it has been 3 months since I last blogged! It has been a very busy summer with much going on. Here is a small recap of our summer...

We were blessed to have a visit by my parents...

and my grandmother who stayed for a month...

the reunion of AJ and his daughter given up for adoption 18 years ago

A fun visit from our good friends, the Avants...Hey Taryn! When ya coming back?

Nicole, a good friend, came and stayed a week. We payed her to dress up like a cow with us for Chick-fil-A's free food if you dress like a cow. Though embarrassed, she had fun...right Nicole!!!

We had people stopping in here and there for a quick "hello".

We have traveled to South Florida...my hometown

to visit family and my god-daughter, Alyssa.

been back to Louisiana a few times, one being for the birth of a good friends son! Welcome Jacob!!!

We have explored a little of Texas and somewhere in there we have cut our grass...

managed to continue to educate our children, spent time in the hospital with Zechariah who had pneumonia, lost a few teeth, and make sure we still had our family devotions.

It has been busy but things are settling down and I hope to be blogging again!

2010-06-04T07:38:00.012-05:00

HAPPY 6th BIRTHDAY

KATIE FAITH!!!

Today our Katie Faith turns the BIG SIX!!! It seems like yesterday she was born and I was changing her diapers, nursing, and excited to see each new stage she reached...crawling, first teeth, first steps......

11months:

19 months (with her crazy hair):

The years are passing by quickly...

2 years:

but joyful ones they are...

3 years:

A few tidbits about our Girlie Girl:

Nickname is Katie Bug.
Loves to wear dresses.
Favorite animal is a pig.
Loves to be with her siblings and gets upset if she has to sleep or play alone.
Is learning to read and can now sound out simple words.
Prays almost everyday to live on a farm and have a pet pig named Wilbur.
Favorite food is pizza with extra sauce.
Likes to color.
Just learned to ride a two wheeler...on her own.
Likes school.
Favorite colors...blue and pink.
Loves to wear pig tails.

Some of my favorite things things about Katie Faith are:
Her helper's heart....... She will offer to help me cook, clean, take care of her little brother, and change diapers...even when she has free time.

Katie Faith perseveres in tough times. When she is having a hard time with something, she will often keep trying, even through the tears, until she accomplishes what she is trying to do.

Her smile. Katie Faith has a smile that brings joy to ours and many others heart. It is not just the smile, but the spirit behind the smile that comes out in her smiling eyes . One of cheer and a warm sweetness.

Recent:

Katie Faith is very excited today being 6. It is a special day for now she is allowed to use a knife. Something she has been looking forward to all year long. And she has informed us she now wants to be called by her real name...Katherine.

Our Dearest Katherine,

We love you and are proud to be your parents. We commit our lives to raise and train you to be a Godly lady who has "Pure Faith" just like your name means. We know we fail you in this task at times and appreciate your faithfulness in always forgiving us cheerfully. You have an inner strength about you that we pray you will use for the Lord in perseverance in serving Him for His glory. We love you and pray, as you grow this next year, it won't only be in size, but in the Lord.

Happy 6th Birthday!
Love, Daddy and Mommy

2010-05-31T09:58:00.010-05:00

Happy Memorial Day!!!

I want to give honor to those who have and currently serve our country for our freedom!

My grandfather...Bob Smith...August 21,1935-March 22,2009

Served in the Korean War.

My father...Charles

Served in the Army.

AJ's grandfather, Joe Zachery, served as a "Frog-man" (predecessor to the SEALs) in the Navy during World War 2.
My Uncle Harley, served in the ARMY in Vietnam.
To William, Chad, Perry, John ( Cinnamon's husband), Lori, and to all the other brave men and women who have served in this nation's military, thank you.

I would like to acknowledge the wives and families of those who have loved ones that currently serve and have served. I thank you for your sacrifice of time and heartache of being without your loved ones while they serve and fight for our freedom. You are truly heroes to me.

As we celebrate with friends and family today, grilling, watching movies, shopping, I ask all of you to pray for a dear wife and mother in Georgia. She lost her husband in Iraq 2 1/2 weeks ago. Please pray comfort and peace in this difficult time.

Thank You All for your service.

We thank God for the freedoms He has given us, many times at the expense of this countries greatest.

We salute you this Memorial Day!

Booked-18 1/2 years later

2010-05-26T15:50:00.008-05:00

The first week I met AJ, before either one of us knew 2 years later we would be married, he told me about a little girl.

She was tiny. Dark hair. He gave her one of her first baths.

She was not very old when he first saw her, and she was not very old when he last saw her.

This little girl's name was Rachel. And she is his daughter.

AJ & Rachel Holding Hands

She was born September 23, 1991.

AJ was overjoyed to see his daughter, yet sad. The biological mother felt it would be in the child's best interest to be placed in a loving home through adoption. AJ fought to keep her, but in God's providence, he lost the battle.

It was an open-close adoption. AJ's parents would occasionally receive pictures of Rachel, now Stephanie Joy. Such a pretty little girl. Always looking so happy. AJ and I would sit there and stare at her picture. She has "your eyebrows" I would tell AJ. "She likes music like you."The sadness in his eyes would give away. Though he would not speak of his hurt.

AJ did not talk much about Stephanie. The pain was so deep of losing her, he buried this pain and turned it into anger. When he did talk, it was always with the undertone of desiring to be with her. He was angry at many.

During these years without Stephanie, God worked in him. It was a slow process and still is, he still has anger, but there is forgiveness in his heart.

AJ confesses that, though he desired to raise his little girl, it was in God's perfect plan for him not to. Though it has grieved him, he rests knowing God ordained this for a reason unknown to him, and all he can do is trust. Trust in a great God who does ALL things for His purpose and glory.

Through the years, we have searched for Stephanie, with no success in finding her.

"If only I knew where she was...if I only knew..." he would say.

I asked him once what he would do if he found her whereabouts.
AJ replied he didn't want to disrupt her life, but would be tempted to go where she lived to "just see her". See her move, maybe catch a glimpse of her smile.

I asked AJ if he ever planned on contacting Stephanie, through the adoption agency, when she turns 18 years old, but fear gripped him with the thought of being rejected by her. Why would she want to know him? She has a good life with a good family. He was "just the guy who did not want me".

I encouraged him never give up hope. He would get to meet her one day. With much doubt, he prayed this would be true.

And then...one day...last July...I got a call...

"Christine...Christine." AJ says breathless, "Stephanie has requested to be my friend on Facebook."

"What!!!????!!! Really?"

"What should I do?" he asked nervously.

"Well, accept it!!!"

He did.

They began corresponding through e-mail, getting to know each other. Favorite foods, colors, movies, animals.

AJ has been like a kid in a candy shop since...excited! Speaking and thinking of her often. Looking forward to the day when they get to meet.

The day they meet...

Today, AJ booked a ticket for Stephanie to fly down here to Texas, June 21st, to reunite with her...18 1/2 years later.

AJ and I are thrilled to meet Stephanie Joy. The children are excited to meet their big sister. We are all anticipating the visit. The kids are already discussing who she will "get" to sleep with. Rest assured, she will have her own room...

So where do I fit into all of this?

From the beginning, God gave me a love for Stephanie. I would spend nights thinking, praying for her. Wish her a "Happy Birthday" wherever she was. Wonder what she was doing......I love her deeply in my heart. Always longing for the day to meet this "special little girl" I first heard about that first week in knowing AJ.

AJ and I are nervous. Full of anticipation and questions... "Will she enjoy her time with us? What will she think of us?..."

But in the midst of the excitement, I can't help but to dream of June 21st......

Stephanie walks down the terminal...AJ sees her...their eyes meet for the first time after 18 1/2 years...and AJ is finally able to take Stephanie in his arms, holding his "little girl" once again...

Wordless Wednesday: Ferocious "Cheetah"!!!

2010-04-28T08:58:00.004-05:00

It's Not To Early

2010-04-25T21:49:00.005-05:00

Tears stream down the cheeks.

"Where has the time gone? My babies are growing up so fast! It seems like yesterday they were born. Tomorrow they will be getting married. "

Kaylyn ( @ 14 mos.)

Don't dry up those tears and start thinking of something else, begin thinking about the day they will wed.

What do you want to see? I'm not talking about a pretty white dress and a nice tux, the brides maids colors.......what is it you want to see in your child, and in their future spouse?

It's not to early to think and ponder on these things.

I want to see a groom who loves the Lord. He is ready to take the responsibility of headship over his bride from her father. A groom who will sacrificially love his wife as Christ loves the church. A gentleman who treats his bride like a lady. Caring for her, sensitive, open to communication. A man committed to prayer. A sense of humor. Trustworthy. Teacher to his wife in the ways of the Lord. Humble. Forgiving. Respected by those who know him. Not easily angered. His house is open to visitors. He loves others. Exercises patience. A groom whose faith will not waiver.

Caleb "E" (@ 2 yrs)

I want to see a bride who cherishes the Lord with all of her heart. She is ready to receive her groom to be her head, willing to submit to him. A bride who will rejoice in caring for her husband, a keeper of the home, cooking, cleaning, washing, with joy knowing she is honoring him. She is not a gossiper, but one who encourages other ladies, young and old, to be more like Christ. Honest. Quick to forgive. She is a prayer warrior for those around her. Patient. Full of hospitality. A gentle and quiet spirit.

This is what I want to see at the wedding for my children.

But with this comes much responsibility and training. Many tears and prayers.

Hours upon hours of training our children to fill the roles as God has intended for groom and bride. It will take much patience when I see them not portraying the characteristics of godliness. Persevering when I feel like I have failed. "How do I teach patience when I just became angry at my child and yelled at him."

Katie Faith (@ 2 yrs.)
Hours in the kitchen learning the tricks of cooking...and cleaning up.

Allowing that sense of humor to come out in a joke that is not funny to me, but cracks my child up.

Working together to get a grass stain out of the jeans, and how to properly clean the toilet.

Teaching the son to be a gentleman by opening the car door for his mommy.

Encouraging a time of quietness with Lord in prayer. Leading by example. Allowing my children see me pray and read God's Word.

Training in fixing things around the house, changing a tire, cutting the grass.

Memorizing scripture so the Holy Spirit can prick the heart and encourage the weary soul with these verses ingrained in their minds.

Allowing friends to come over and play. Giving their friends first choice on the game to play, or first choice in the color of cup they would like to use. Ways to start teaching on hospitality.

Elijah ( @ 8 mos.)

We parents have much to train our children in.

But what about their spouse. What do we do about them? We may or may not know them, this does not matter, for our Lord knows who they are.

So we pray.

We pray for their parents. For God to grant them wisdom in raising our future daughter or son-in law. We pray the Lord will work in the child's heart and grant them salvation at a young age, to avoid the many temptations in the world. We pray for the Lord to guide, protect, and prepare them for our child. Pray the family will have a home full of joy in the Lord.

I encourage you,the next time you look at your little one, growing up too quick, shed those tears of missing the younger days, and then get down on your knees, thank God for these precious moments, and then pray to our Lord for guidance raising this little one in training to be a lady or man.

For it's not to early.

................Tears pour down the cheeks................

"Where has the time gone? It seems like yesterday I was holding you in my arms, calming your cry. Now I sit here in church at your wedding," so I imagine...sob.
Zechariah (@ 9 mths)

Then I glance at my child's spouse...with tears in my eyes, knowing I have prayed for this spouse for many years. Since they were a babe. Rejoicing in this answered prayer.

Both are dressed up in their pretty gown and nice tux, but all I can think of is the many years I have prayed and looked forward to this sweet time of union between the two.

Lord, help me in raising my children. Give me discernment. Use me to reflect you in spite of my failures. Forgive me each time I show them something not like you, Oh God! Use me in their lives for your own glory. I pray for my future daughter and son-in laws, draw them unto you, prepare their hearts to be a godly spouse. Give me a love now, for my daughter-in-law, my future son-in-law. Thank you God for the precious moments you have given me with my little ones, I look forward to seeing them grow up, and Lord-willing, become a son and daughter that will honor you in their role as a husband or a wife.

Zechariah Turns the Big 1 !

2010-04-08T22:00:00.023-05:00

Our Little Zechariah turned 1 years old March 4th. He is our "miracle" baby as someone calls him.

When I was pregnant with him, at 11 wks., my dr. informed me that there was something wrong with my baby. Read here for my thoughts and feelings on this. At 15 weeks, it was determined our baby had Down Syndrome because of having strong markers pointing to it.

AJ and I embraced in the fact that our God had blessed us with a "special" child. We were humbled that our Lord would find us worthy of raising a child with Down's. We looked forward to meeting our blessing, and that we did, on March 4, 2009.

Early in the morning, as I went to the hospital to be prepared for my c-section, I remember the excitement of knowing I was going to hold my wee one. I prayed for his/her safety. I prayed for strength to endure any difficulties or problems that may occur in the delivery. My doctor had informed me that he had scheduled for NICU to be there to assist with the baby.

As I was being worked up by the nurse, she mentioned the Down's, and then apologized for bringing it up. Oh, to the contrary! I explained to her how excited we were and knew God placed this little one in my womb perfectly, to His liking.

As I laid in the operating room, with AJ and Mrs. Pat (who is very special to me and who has been there for the births of my last 3 children), I felt an incredible peace. The atmosphere was a joyous one, besides my almost fainting and vomiting...

At 7:23am, I witnessed, by a mirror, the dr. pulling out the baby - a boy! I saw before he told us. The next words to come out of his mouth, "He looks healthy. I don't believe he has Down's."
After a brief glimpse they whisked him away to a separate room check him out.

Down's or not, it didn't matter. My heart was thrilled to see my newest blessing...Zechariah David.Zechariah, meaning "God has remembered", and David ( "Beloved")...named after the great man in the Bible who loved God with all his heart.

1 day old:

3 days old:

6 weeks:At 7 weeks, our Zechariah had a little fever. After a visit with the dr., he admitted him into the hospital to be monitored over night. After 2 weeks of ups and many downs we were discharged.

It was a rough 6 months dealing with his pertusis, but Zechariah proved to be of strong character.

4 months:

6 months:

Our chubbiest baby!

He continue to grows in personality each day. Calm and easy going. He first sat up at 61/2 months, began crawling at 10 months. He doesn't have a "normal" crawl, he kind of scoots on his bottom while pushing off with his leg.

9 months:

Zechariah prefers small quarters while sleeping. He prefers to sleep in a closet than in a room. When we go to a hotel, we place a blanket on the floor of the closet, shut the door, and he is happy. Just last week he left our closet to sleep in his crib for the first time. He is adjusting ok, but was quite content when he took a nap in the closet this afternoon! :)

He loves his diaper changed. From the time he was a week old, if he was crying, I learned when I acted like I was changing him he would stop crying. Now, he kicks with excitement when we change him. Cute it is, but a challenge!

Favorite food...dog food. Anything else...he could leave it. He never would eat baby food ( don't blame him), likes graham crackers ok, and bananas sometimes, but other than that, he is not that interested(Since I began this post...over a week ago...he has explored with oatmeal, beans, and potatoes, actually taken more than 2 bites!).

He is fought over by his siblings on who gets to take care of him. I encourage them not to quarrel over him and try to remember whose turn it is to help out.

Zechariah used to hate bath time until he could splash and get me all wet. Now, he has a ball!

To celebrate his 1st birthday, AJ prayed for our son and his life to come...

and we gave him his very first banana ( we don't do cake until the age of 2.)......

He likes our animals and I can often find him next to the rat cage "talking" to them. When outside, he loves the dogs. You think we should get him a goat?

Favorite toy is a pencil ( not sharpened) or pen, and paper.

It is hard to vacuum with him around as he loves to chase it!

Nicknames...Zecharoni (thanks Elijah A.!) and Cracker Zech.

Zechariah can be very serious, likes to observe his surroundings, and has a cute giggle and laugh. He truly is a blessing!!!

My sweet Zechariah, from the time I learned of you in my womb I have loved you greatly. I take pleasure in calling you my son. I pray you will have a love for our God we serve and be a servant unto him. I look forward to watching the milestones you will make this next year and enjoying them moment by moment. Mommy loves you, Zecharoni!!!

Wordless Wdnesday- Oh Rats!

2010-04-07T13:07:00.005-05:00

2010-04-06T14:57:00.020-05:00

This past March we had two specials birthdays in our family. I will tell of the first one today.

First was a child who was not supposed to have been born...according to my dr. After my 3rd child, and 3rd c-section, my dr. at the time told me due to physical signs she had seen I was to have no more children. She told me if I get pregnant again I would probably die. After much prayer and finding out some "things" about this dr. that were unethical, my husband and I went for a 2nd opinion for our hearts were heavy in feeling our family was not complete. We went to a Christian dr. who likes large families and was recommended by my friend, Laura . After a review of my records, he said he thought there was no reason I should not be able to have more.

Two months later I was pregnant after a miscarriage.

On March 1st, 2207 I delivered Elijah John. ....Elijah.... great man in the Bible meaning "My God is Lord" and John, named after a great preacher and ancestor of mine, Jonathon Edwards.

( unfortunately somehow all pictures of him before 8 months have been deleted or lost from our computer...if any of you have some, please e-mail these precious memories to me)

Elijah was a good baby full of smiles. He was my first to be attached to me so much he would only leave me to go with daddy sometimes and Miss Cole from church. People would roll there eyes, some make comments "he is a momma's boy" in a tone like there was something wrong with him or me for Elijah wanting to be with me. I was embarrassed he would not leave me and go to others freely. I would, at times, force him, in hopes he would get used to others so he would not be "disliked" for not being friendly.

Until one day, I asked myself, "why do I care so much?" It was pride. I did not want others to think ill of him...or me. And the thought crossed my mind," if something happened today to Elijah and he died, I would regret not holding my baby and forcing him to go to others." From that day on, I did not care if people liked it or not he was a "momma's boy".

Elijah- 8 months:

9 months- with Daddy, sucking his 2 middle fingers ( a habit since 3 mths old):

Elijah was a late walker. He did not begin walking until he was almost 20 months old.

Here he is pushing his biggest sister, Kaylyn, in the stroller at the zoo. Already in training to be a gentleman:

2 years old:

This past year, Elijah's personality has blossomed! His best friend is still my leg :) but he now runs off and plays. He has taken on many new words....that mommy can understand but others need an interpreter most of the time still.

Favorite color is blue.
He loves his "teekles" ( motorcycles), especially blue ones.

This is Elijah's first time sitting on a motorcycle. It is his Great Uncle Walt's "teekle":

First toy "teekle". He got it for
Christmas from daddy and mommy:

He loves football.He was given his first real football by his friend, Nicholas, when we visited Baton Rouge a couple of months ago. Elijah always has this with him, even to sleep and eat:

In case you are wondering, he is also a Florida Gators fan...just like his mommy!!!

Elijah loves to swing and Miss "Cole" is still his special friend he has had since birth:

Elijah Bear ( Daddy's nickname for him) is quite a character... likes to make us laugh...
tends to be a perfectionist, getting very upset when things mess up not to his liking...

loves to dip fish sticks in chocolate pudding...

and comes quietly in our room at night to sleep on the floor by our bed.

He may be the Big 3 now...

but he still let's us hold him like a newborn...

and he still sucks those two middle fingers.

You are a true blessing, my "Stink pot", I love you and pray for you daily that you will continue to grow, healthy and happy, but more importantly, I pray you will be a man of God. I will always treasure our moments of you in my arms the first two years of your life. And when you are a man, married, with your own children, you will still be welcomed to throw yourself on my lap and I will hug you, kiss you, and love you, just as much as when I first laid my eyes on you, back on March 1, 2007.

"The Move"...... Lesson Learned

2010-01-24T21:14:00.010-06:00

When AJ and I first learned he received the job here in Texas, we were blessed with 4 weeks before his starting date at the new job. Though we are not fond of renting, we felt this would be in the best interest for us at the time so we could learn the area before purchasing a place. So graciously, our friends, William and Taryn, offered to keep the kids one weekend while we came to house hunt and get a feel for the area. Nothing was found, so as we returned home we discussed the different options of what to do. It was most clear we did not want our family to be split, with AJ in Texas working and us back in Louisiana. So the week before his starting date, we made reservations at a hotel. We would go as a family for a week, while AJ was at work, the children and I were to look for a place to rent.

"Are you crazy? You are going to stay in a hotel with FIVE kids for a week?"

"I would rather be without my husband for a week than stay in a hotel with kids."

"Are you out of you mind?"

"Better you than me!"

These were just a few comments I received.

To be honest, when I thought about staying in the hotel room with 5 kids, I cringed.

I knew I had to come up with a plan. For my sanity.

So thus, I started jotting ideas down of what we could do for this long week.

Make tents.
Color.
Play "Old Maid."

These were my plans.

So thus, we headed out and I was ready to "fight the good fight" knowing my week was going to be hard.

Well, one week turned into 2, which turned into 3, and eventually ended up to almost two months.

During these two months, I learned a lot. But the biggest thing I learned was...I enjoy my kids.

Say what? I am just learning this?...Unfortunately, yes.

You see, being a wife, "Keeper of the Home" (which includes 3 meals a day, laundry, bathrooms, stepping on and picking up toys, constant training of children, dog trainer, window cleaner...sometimes...floor sweeper, and more.), a homeschooler, active servant in my church, friend, daughter.

With all of these "so important"things, I lost my focus of what a true mother should be.

Sad? Yes.

All of my "duties" took front place over my children. Isn't this what a good wife and mother is all about? Being able to manage everything and still have a clean house?

Sadly, my kids would frustrate me because I was trying to get something done. I did not have time to play 2 games because I had a pile of laundry piled so high I couldn't see the washing machine. I didn't have time to play hide and seek because I was meal planning or scrubbing a toilet.

Then came our life at the hotel.

No need to make breakfast, it was in the lobby waiting for me. I had a "personal maid" each day to clean our bathroom, make our bed, dust, etc. Laundry would be saved for our weekend at home, which was also used to cook meals for the week so we did not have to eat out.

With this extra free time, I had the chance to "do" things with my kids.

We went to different parks. Colored together. Played "Bible Tag", made up games, tickled one another, observed bugs, snuggled, sang songs, stare contests, read books.

I learned that my kids are fun.

Wow. Sitting here now brings tears to my eyes.

The time I missed with my kids for "so called" "duties"?

Sure, I have responsibilities in the house, but isn't a top priority, as a mother, to nurture and love my kids for the Lord?

Work will always be there, but my kids will not. They are growing up quickly. I will have young men and ladies in my house soon. I would be foolish to let this time pass by and not to enjoy my children.

My children are precious. They are fun. I enjoy spending time with them. I enjoy getting down on the floor and playing "doggy", or going outside to play "Catch the Cow, Cowboy".

Learning this lesson was the best thing for me. I thank God very often for our long stay in the hotel. To be honest, I was sad when it was over. To not have my precious children not in the same room with me at all times, in close quarters, is sad. I miss the closeness it brings. And the children miss it also. Just tonight I had one ask if they could "move in with mommy and daddy".

Words will never express the gratitude I have for my Lord, Jesus, for bringing me to this place of showing me how precious my time with the children are.

Though I have returned to my normal "duties", I now devote time each day to have fun with my children.

I still have my moments of "losing sight" of what God taught me. I get busy in my day to day activities, get frustrated for "them messing up MY plan", tell them I am busy and "it will have to wait". But at the end of the day, as I lay my tired body down in bed, the Lord gently reminds me of HIS lesson taught to me. I am not perfect at this, but I shall continue to try my hardest to be the mom they deserve, the mom God created me to be.

I spend time with my children not just for them, but also for me, as a mommy, who loves and enjoys these gifts from God.

So, to the comments I received:

"Are you crazy? You are going to stay in a hotel with FIVE kids for a week?" Yes, and I would do it for seven more.

"Are you out of you mind?" Nope, just a mom who loves her children.

"Better you than me!" I agree.

I LOVE YOU KAYLYN, E, KATIE FAITH, ELIJAH, ZECHARIAH!

I am proud to be your Mommy.

"The Move" Part 5

2010-01-15T19:08:00.010-06:00

Upon arriving to Texas and one more night in "our hotel", I arrive at our "new" house to see the truck waiting.

Once again, after learning the plan, the men quickly got to work...

and finally finished around 6:30 pm...

However, before they left, AJ had the privilege to share the Gospel with them. The men do not go to church but were very polite and listened and engaged in the conversation. We may never see these men again, but this we DO know...... God's Word never comes back void.
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After moving in, a week later we went to Florida for a few weeks, came back and headed to Baton Rouge for a Christmas celebration with AJ's side of the family...who is a strange :) but a fun group...

Uncle Vic:

Aunt Margaret...

and cousins...Vic and Keith...

Zechariah trying to figure out "what this guy is all about"...

Don't worry Zechariah, we are still trying to figure out Uncle Vic also.

Keith "fixing" Elijah's hair...

And last, our most precious, classy, "MawMaw," who is a proud 90 yrs. old:

Since returning from this celebration, we have been busy with company, with our last leaving Wednesday morning.

Though these were great times of fellowship, I am eager to finally begin to get settled into our new home. I still have boxes to unpack, pictures to put up, and curtains to hang, but I look forward to making our new life here in the......

Great State of Texas!!!

Just for Fun...

For any of you who like history, take a look at this picture and tell me who Keith resembles...

Did you guess....

John Calvin, the great theologian?...

Crazy, huh!?!

"The Move" Part 4

2010-01-15T15:52:00.011-06:00

I was sitting at the computer when I heard the truck rolling up. I glanced out the window to see the truck pulling to a stop at 7:59am.

My heart began beating quickly as I felt anxiety quickly entering into my mind. Tears were in my eyes.

"This is really happening" I whisper to myself.

"Are we making a mistake?"

"What about my friends?...will they forget me?"

"The kids, are they going to adapt ok?"

" This is where my kids were born. I have all my memories here. AJ has come so far fixing up the house from when we purchased it as a foreclosure."

I cry out to God.

I e-mail a friend who has just gone through the same thing. (Thanks Nikki, for your words of encouragement.)

I am feeling tense all over my body, trying to dry my tears as I watch the men exiting their truck.

After a brief discussion how things will go, the men quickly get to work.

After 2 days of packing, they begin loading up everything onto the truck on the 3rd day.

I asked the men if this "blue carpet" was for me since I AM Queen Christine:

I don't think they were amused. Although I was. :)

On the night before I was to leave for Texas to meet the men at our "new" house, I had dinner with my good friend, Amy. After leaving, I took the kids to a friend's house ( Julie) to spend the night. After getting them settled for bed,
I headed towards Amy's house to spend my last evening in Baton Rouge playing games and relaxing with her and her husband.

It was around 9:00 when I left. As I was driving, I came upon a point in the road I was not familiar with. I could not tell where the road was headed, hit a curb, almost went into the other lane, with a car headed straight towards me, spun a little, and then stopped. I was shaken up a lot, the baby was crying, Elijah was still sleeping. I pull over to check the van to see this:

A flat tire. My friend's husband, Clay, who is a mechanic, comes to my aide and we head back to her house for the night. (Thank you Clay for your kindness. You and your family are great blessings to us.)
I head out for Texas the next day after getting a new tire, and a quick, heartfelt lunch made by my friend, Taryn.

I have to say, with all this anxiety I felt on these few days was because I took my eyes off of Christ. I looked to my own strength, which never gets me far. I started to doubt, fear crept in. I was a mess inside.
I thank God for Him restoring me with HIS strength, HIS hope, in my weakness. I give Him all credit and glory for His strength.

2 Corinthians 13:9 (King James Version)

"For we are glad, when we are weak, and Ye are strong..."

To God be all the glory for His strength in this hardship.

New Year's Resolution

2010-01-01T20:55:00.004-06:00

As the new year approaches, many people begin making their "New Year's Resolutions" ...excercise more, lose weight, stop smoking, remodel house, spend less, and so on. There is excitement about the new goals that we make and intend to keep. We get excited about what this new year will hold for us. Could be an expected child growing in the womb, marriage date coming, a vacation that has been planned for months, maybe years.

But for some, the new year brings sorrow. This has been deeply on my heart for weeks. As I have gone through the season my heart has been hurting and at times my eyes have been brought to tears. For as the "New Year" approaches this will be a year of firsts for many.

I am reminded of the mom who lost her 2 yr. old daughter, Vivian, due to drowning in their swimming pool. As Zechariah was in PICU recovering from whooping cough, a little girl named Vivian laid in the next room with her life slipping away from drowning in the family pool.

As AJ and I kissed each other at midnight last night, my grandmother was standing their as a new widow, first time in many years not able to kiss her loved one at this special time.

The family whom their loved one is now missing, unknown to them if they are alive or dead.

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Case Handled By:

National Center for Missing & Exploited Children

GABRIEL SCOTT JOHNSON
Case Type: Endangered Missing
DOB: May 3, 2009	Sex: Male
Missing Date: Dec 27, 2009	Race: White
Age Now: 7 Month(s)	Height: 2'0" (61 cm)
Missing City: TEMPE	Weight: 20 lbs (9 kg)
Missing State : AZ	Hair Color: Lt. Brown
Missing Country: United States	Eye Color: Blue
Case Number: NCMC1137894
Circumstances: Gabriel was last seen on December 27, 2009.

This new year for them will be a new year of life hurting without loved ones. 2010 will be the first "year" their loved one has not lived in with them. May seem small to some, for others, this is a big deal... I speak from experience.

So why do I bring this up?

Two reasons.

First, I am in hope that each one of us will be in prayer for these hurting ones. We may not know them, they not know us, but God knows each hurting one. He knows their needs. He knows their deepest pain. The tears that have fallen down their cheeks.

Psalm 56:8 (KJV) Thou tellest my wanderings: put thou my tears into thy bottle: are they not in thy book?

Second, take time to appreciate the loved ones, friends, in your life. Call them. Give a tight, warm hug. Send a hand written card letting them know you are thinking of them. Listen to their every care, though it may seem small to you, it could be big to them. Invite them over to dinner. Kiss your child one more time before bed. Visit your grandparents and ask them to tell you old memories they have of growing up. Show patience to the rude cashier, she may have lost a child. Forgive the driver who cut in front of you, he may angry and hurting at the thought his dad's life was taken by a stranger who robbed his house.

May we make a "Resolution" to show one another love and patience this year. To be in prayer for the hurting. For next year, it could be YOU, it could be ME, who will need love, patience, heartfelt prayers.

"The Move" Part 3

2009-12-28T21:00:00.017-06:00

After the bad experience mentioned in my last post, I was looking forward to staying in the new hotel I had found for my family. Though I was not supposed to check in for several hours, I drove to the new hotel with anticipation of what it would be like.

I walk in and was greeted my the most pleasant smile yet in Texas. I asked if I could check in early and with a cheerful voice the lady said I could. I parked our van, let the kids out of their seats, and began unloading our things onto a laundry cart. Because of it just opening this day, they had not received carts to bring our luggage in yet.

Kaylyn pretending to be a horse pulling a wagon

I was presented a rose for being their first customer at the hotel.

Dinner living in a hotel:

During the day, while AJ was working, the children and I would ride around looking for a place to live. Every few days, we would take the day off and go to a park. The kids would run and play with much excitement while I would sit watching them and then at times join in to play while Zechariah slept.
At this particular park, the kids found a present for their friend.

Can you guess what it is?

It's a toad!

This was for you, Elijah A.

The toad never made it to his house as he got loose in the van and was never to be found....

Each weekend we would travel home to get ready for the movers and so I could make dinner for the week and catch up on laundry. On this particular day, I decided to stop at a beach because the kids had been especially good for the week so I wanted to treat them.

As the days turned into weeks living at the hotel, the staff became our dear friends. Each morning our trip to the breakfast area brought excitement for the kids who would try to guess who was working "that day". Our new friends would come greet us and keep us company when able. They would bring them candy, give them cookies and even planned a little party for them on Halloween. Since we don't celebrate this holiday, we told the kids it was "dress up day" at the hotel.

Our Friends: Dianne, Kayla, Hailey and Shay ( not pictured)...

ordered pizza...

cupcakes..

gave stickers and more.

This is Shay, who gave the children balloons on a different occasion:

The cleaning ladies would set up the kids animals on the bed for them. This always put a smile on the kids face:The kids would help the ladies do their jobs in the mornings:

The kids had a blast living at the hotel. Every time we leave the house, the kids want to visit their friends and Elijah, the 2 yr. old, says, "Pass Hotel?"

I thank God for their generosity to my family. They will never know how much their kindness meant to me as I was dealing with sadness in leaving my friends "back home" and coming to a unknown place.They are dear friends to my heart and I pray our friendship will continue for many years to come.

Gun Shots?- Moving Part 3

2009-11-24T13:19:00.001-06:00

As we arrived at the hotel, the kids unbuckled with excitement. "Mommy, is there a pool?" "Do they have free breakfast?" "What is taking daddy so long?" ( he was checking in...and probably eating a cookie), " Can we stay on the top floor?" Their excitement rubbed off on me, and I too, could not wait to see where we would be staying until we found a place to live.

AJ returns and we drive around to our room. We open the door and...whew! It smelled like an old lady with cheap perfume sitting in her musty house. Trying to be optimistic, I tell myself I could handle the smell and I would get used to it, eventually.

The kids come running in, throw off their shoes and jump on the bed. There's nothing like jumping on a hotel bed. I remember doing this as a kid, so I allowed them jump for a few minutes. While they were getting out energy, I checked the bathroom out, only to find URINE and a piece of hair on the toilet! Still trying to be optimistic and persevere, I ignore it and tell myself it could be worse.

After awhile of us settling in with our weeks worth of clothes and activities for the kids, I notice something black...... Feet...... Yes, my kids feet were black from walking on the hotel floor, in our room. I immediately begin telling them, " Stop crawling on the floor"," Pick up the baby", "NO! Don't eat that! It touched the ground!" "Don't touch the sink...it is dirty!" I finally had them get ready for bed so I did not have to worry about what they were touching.

By this time, I am sick to my stomach, nauseated from the grandma smell. I walk outside for a moment to get something out of our van.

"Is there a problem?" I ask a security guard who is standing behind AJ's car writing down info.

"No Mam, I am writing down information on the cars." he answers.

"Is there a reason for this?" I ask.

"Yes Mam. I go car to car and write down anything wrong with the them and check them several times a night to make sure nothing has happened to them."

"I see. Is this a problem here?"

"Yes Mam."

"Sir, Am I in a rough area? I have 5 small kids in there and I want to make sure we are safe. We will be staying here for awhile."

The security guard replies," It is a rougher area. But it is not that bad. You might hear a few gun shots..." PAUSE! STOP! SLAM ON THE BRAKES!!!Did he just say...GUN SHOTS?!?

As he was saying..." You might here a few gun shots and have some break ins to the cars but the other hotel you just asked about had a shoot out there not long ago." ( which was untrue, it was THIS hotel as I found out later).

I go in and start looking for other hotels right away, with AJ's permission. I found a brand new one about 25 minutes closer to AJ's new job opening the next day. I make reservations, skip my bath,I was grossed out and felt I might get dirtier taking a bath, and then go to bed... Praying for our safety and the vehicles.

Next morning, AJ and I pray and then he leaves with anticipation for his first day on the job. The kids and I head for to the lobby for breakfast. This to was an experience but I'll spare you the details. When we finished, I packed up our things, and off my gang, the kids, and I went from this bad experience to a much better one.

* No real life pictures in this post from our experience due to me being in Florida with our pictures on the computer back home.

The "Big Move" Part 2

2009-11-20T22:39:00.015-06:00

When we decided to move, AJ and I sat down with the children to tell them. After an explanation of what was going on and a time of prayer, we asked the kids their thoughts. They were excited. "E" asked if he could meet a cowboy and get a milking cow. Kaylyn was a little quiet but was excited also. Katie Faith wanted to know if she could get a stinky pig. Elijah, he said...ball. :)

When AJ learned of his starting date at the new job, we knew we would not have a place to live that soon. Not wanting to split the family with AJ in Texas and the rest of us in Louisiana, we quickly came to the conclusion we would go with AJ and stay at the hotel.

So, the weekend before I began packing for our week long Adventure at the hotel. We were also blessed to have 2 friends spend the night.

"E" and Elijah enjoyed sharing facts about sharks and different animals. They also were goof balls making silly faces at the camera. Which their mothers would NEVER do!

Katie Faith And her other "sister" Rachel played dolls and with their animals. They also had a hard time falling asleep with all of their precious giggling and whispering to one another!
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This is our first Sunday to start our adventure at the hotel and life in Texas, we headed to Texas after church. We stopped at the Texas Welcome Area after crossing the line.

This is AJ's mustang..."Shugga" in front of the Texas star...

We enjoyed watching an alligator snap at this turtle threatening the turtles life.

This is the view from where we watched the alligator. You can walk out on the boardwalk, although we have not done this yet.

A man, who worked at the Welcome Center as a janitor, saw our kids, asked me if all 5 were mine, left, and moments came back with a coloring book for each of them about Texas.

As we drove on, the kids colored in their books. I prayed and listened to a CD by Doug Phillips. I also enjoyed AJ's little game of driving next to us. He always brings smiles to my face with his goofy self.
That night when we arrived at the hotel, let's just say, we only stayed there one night. More on that with our next post on our big move.
But before I close off, I have to say about leaving, this day was one of the hardest times for me emotionally. I want to make sure I give God the glory for HIS strength for getting me through it. My heart was breaking yet I knew this was the path God had put us on. He has been, and always will be, so faithful to me...His child...in spite of my sin.

Decluttering For a Garage Sale

2009-11-18T15:15:00.015-06:00

When we decided to move, we had a realtor come over The first thing she said we needed to do was declutter our house. With 5 small kids and two adults we had accumulated a lot in 7 years at the same house. It was a bit overwhelming, especially knowing we had only 4 weeks before AJ started his new job and needed to be in Texas.

I would look around and start to cry not knowing where to start. I would finish one area and the next would seem to have so much more. I thought of taking pictures but was to embarrassed. One day, a good friend, Starr, came over to help. She spent the whole day helping and giving me tips. Thanks Starr! You are a blessing!

In God's Word, it says, "Be careful for nothing; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God." (Philippians 4:6)

So I began thinking of a price I wanted to ask God for, if it be HIS will.....

$600.00.

Two weeks later, Starr and I began setting up. She had been working hard at her house to get rid of things also. We started early Thursday morning ( I actually did some on Wed.). It took us all day.

This is our garage with a lot of the stuff in it. In my house was more! We could carry, drag, and push things trying to get them to the carport.

When My Man, AJ, arrived home from work he quickly got to work helping us unload the garage. He would take our van, stuff it with junk and kids, drive it around to the carport and unload.

We had 13 tables, used the ground, fence, poles to hang clothes, and still needed more room. After much hard work, aching backs, and tired feet, we called it quits late in the evening.

The next morning, I arose at 6 am to prepare for customers whom I expected to start arriving around 6:30.
6:30...no one.
7:00...no customers yet.
7:30...not a one.
This was unusual because usually I start having them around 6 something. So thus started my doubt. This is not going to be a good garage sale. Maybe I picked a bad weekend to do this. I should have advertised in the newspaper......

Then at 7:40 came my first customer. She bought one small thing for 10 cents. Ten minutes later, the people slowly began to came. It was wasn't overly busy with people on Friday. It was steady though. Enough to keep us and the children busy doing things.

Here we are taking a break eating lunch...

It was a beautiful day until about 1:00pm. The dark, stormy clouds started to roll in. Then they rolled out. Two hours later, here they come again. But this time they did not leave as quickly. We had a huge downpour!

Here is Starr and I covering up our things as quickly as possible:

Elijah playing in the rain.....

The first day ended and Starr was tired. Me, I was ready to do it all over again! I love garage sales! I love going to them and I love having them.

As I sat there that evening, I did a rough count of the money I had made so far. A little over $200.00. Which means I needed $400.00 more to go to meet my goal. All of my "big" things sold already and I only had clothes and little "what nots" to sell. Knowing this, I realized my goal of $600.00 was not going to be possible.

Well after a long Saturday, many new customers, a few from the day before, the long process of cleaning everything up, I sat down and totaled all of our money.

I did not make my $600.00 as I had prayed for. Nope, sure didn't.......I made Six hundred and ONE dollars and 32 cents!

I did not think it was possible to make $400.00 with the items I had left...BUT GOD!

In His word it says, "All things are possible through Him."

Why do I doubt Him? Doesn't He prove Himself over and over in the Bible AND in my life!?! He promised to never send a flood all over this earth again, God promised to send His Son to this earth to die on the cross for our sins,He promised to forgive us of our sins if we repent with a sincere heart...... "Oh God, what small faith I have, increase it for YOUR glory!!!"......

I had a great time with Starr having this garage sale. We have done the past 2 together. She is quite a character and makes me laugh with her stories! Thank you Starr for all of your hard work! You are a trooper! Want to join me in my next one? Yes, I am already collecting for my next annual garage sale!

One last picture for you guys...

During the garage sale, I would sit Cracker Zech, Zechoroni, Zackie, next to me at our money table. People would see him and say, "What a cute doll!" And come to see how much he was, only to find out he was real! So on Saturday I sat him down with this little sign above him...

To God be the Glory once again, in my lack of Faith, proving Himself ever so faithful!

We Are Here!

2009-11-17T22:21:00.003-06:00

A couple of months ago I announced our family made a huge decision with much prayer to move. This past Thursday we officially became residents of the great state Texas.

With such a move comes much work and preparation, thus why I have been off loop for a long time with blogging. The next few days, my plan is to take you through our Adventures through this transition. It has been hard, it has been fun. Many tears yet smiles. Leaving friends, meeting new ones.

First up...decluttering which means...a massive garage sale!

Been Busy!

2009-10-02T11:00:00.003-05:00

Yes! I am still alive! With a big move comes much work thus the reason I have not blogged in a long time.

The past month has been filled with many emotions. From joy, sadness to fear. But my faithful God, Jesus Christ, continues to show Himself real in this time of change. Lord-willing, in the next few days I will blog of our adventure the past month we have been enduring so far.

I pray all of you are doing well and look forward to catching up with you through your blogs in the near future.

Be blessed!

Big News!

2009-08-28T20:51:00.007-05:00

Big News...we are moving.... Not across town but to Texas.

AJ has accepted a new job. It was not an easy decision. We will be leaving our friends, family and church. Involved in the decision there were many fears, questions, tears, fasting, praying, searching. It was the toughest decision AJ has ever had to make. Though some may not understand why we made the decision, we are clear this is the right one.

So, I rejoice yet I grieve. I don't know what the future holds but I trust in my God who knows. He shall supply all our needs. I grieve for different reasons that I choose not to go into right now.

So we have 3-4 weeks before we leave. Much to do around the house. Painting, cleaning out, fixing things, etc...I feel like I never stop. But why should this be a problem? Why is it that if I don't get to relax in the evening I get upset? God created me to work. To stay up late and rise before the house. This is good for me. This is a training and teaching time for me. I may get weary, but I will keep my focus on Christ. I will persevere. I will rejoice in the aching back, I will rejoice in going through the next drawer that I have dreaded. I will rejoice!

So the next few weeks will be busy. They will be filled with anticipation yet many times of tears falling down my face. Times when I want all of this to be over, times to remind myself to enjoy this process God has ordained for our family.

I look forward to seeing what God has in store for us! To Him be the glory!!!

Assignment For YOU!!!

2009-08-18T13:41:00.004-05:00

It has been awhile since I blogged. I have a lot that has been going on. My grandmother for a month visited, a big garage sale that was a lot of work but a success, and more.

With much going on that I can't speak about just yet, I have had a few rough weeks. Lots of tears and sleepless nights and my mind constantly moving and thinking. Though I know God is control and I have a peace only from our Lord, my heart still is hurting and I feel like crying a lot of times.

Today has been especially rough for me and I need some cheering up. Can you help me?

I would like for YOU to tell me something funny to make me smile. An embarrassing moment, something a kid said to you, your favorite joke, whatever you can think of!

Did you drop your underwear stuck in your sweater in front of an officer?

Did you keep singing when everyone stopped and everyone heard how you were out of tune?

Make me smile, My Friends!

This Is the Day

2009-07-20T10:26:00.005-05:00

My two year old cried for 20 min. because he wanted to say goodbye to daddy and didn't get to, One child just peed on the floor and used almost a whole roll of toilet paper to try to clean it up, while I was cleaning that up, another child decided the toilet was something to play in (at least it was flushed), You can probably smell me through the computer as I smell like sour milk as I was just spit up on for the 3rd time this am. One child woke up to early and is easily upset and another is upset he has to write his own "e" in school. My stomach is upset from something I ate I think, and there is lots of work to do around the house.

I will TRY to remember God's Word..."This is the day the Lord has made, I will rejoice in it and be glad..."

Just another day in the house of little ones! :)

Satisfied In Christ?

2009-07-16T15:21:00.003-05:00

A pet peeve of mine in the church today is the prosperity message. It has creaped into many church's in a subtle way.

Just the other day someone told me that God always heals if you have faith.

Is that so? Explain to me then why a lady I know, who loves the Lord, lost her precious baby Anna. Was it lack of faith? Was it her sin?

To often this is taught in churches and it angers me.

What do we say to the persecuted christian in China, India, Bangladesh who's child or spouse is taken from them and beat almost to death for their beliefs? In front of them. Do we say, " I am sorry, Brother In Christ, for your pain but if you would just have faith this would have never happened."

God forbid!

Then there are the churches who also teach if you have faith, you will be blessed. This can be true but false also. We are always blessed for we deserve NOTHING from Christ. But they speak of it in a different way.

Have faith, sin not, and you will have a nice house, nice car, nice clothes, etc. Oh, they don't usually say it like that, they casually put in conversation or a message where it seems so innocent and true. I know, I used to go to churches who taught these things.

Two things that were said that I won't forget at these churches were the following:

During prayer requests a man made mention of another man who was sick and looked as if God was going to bring him home of having a massive heart attack. He was sad that this man was dying. "If he would just have truth faith he would make it through this" Sigh. How sad. I do hope this man did not say this to his friend or his wife.

The other instance, the church was in financial need and they were asking who had enough faith to pledge to God money they did not have to the church. "If you have faith, God will make it happen."

Sadly a sweet couple made a pledge, before God, for $10,000! They were already in debt! In the end, they wondered what was wrong with their faith and struggled for a time with this. They never did give the money. They did break their promise to God.

This prosperity message happens in all religions, yes, Baptist, Pentecostal, Lutheran, Full Gospel and more.
I pray God would show these preachers and brethren in Christ their error. Some whom I know truly love God they are just brainwashed in this belief system.

Here is a video that just hits home with me.

( Remember to hit "pause" on my playlist before you listen.)

In your life, Is God the giver of cars or is He alone the portion of your life?

Are you most satisfied in Christ?

Titus 2 Lady in My Life

2009-07-13T22:27:00.004-05:00

I want to introduce you to a lady in my life. She does not have a big house, a fancy car, clothes from upscale stores. She is not a doctor nor a lawyer. She doesn't have her own t.v. show or record label.

What does she have and why do I want you to know her?

She has a heart after God and I want you to know her because she is a blessing in my life.

Blog friends, meet Claudia.

I met Claudia at church 8 years ago. I was struck by her hunger for God and her heart for the lost.

She does not hesitate to share the Gospel with others, including strangers. I would be secure in saying that anyone she comes into contact with, whether it be a cashier or a security guard at a hospital...she has said something about Christ and our need for Him.

It is not uncommon for her to call me up and ask me to pray for someone she has witnessed to and her desire for them to come to church the following Sunday.

The past year has been difficult for me physically. I was pregnant and sick the entire time. There were days I couldn't get off the couch to take care of my kids. With a baby about to arrive and a house that was neglected for months, my house with in chaos.

Claudia came over to help in the cleaning in spite of me insisting her not. She would grab the kids and put them to work.

After Zechariah arrived she watched the kids a few days as I recuperated from my c-section playing school with them, reading books, doing laundry, washing dishes, cooking, etc.

Adjusting to having a new baby and trying to keep things in order with the house, other children, homeschooling, my relationship with Christ and my husband can sometimes be hard. Their are days I feel everything is going fine and then days I feel overwhelmed.

Claudia will call me up and tell me she wants to come over to help. I insist I am ok but she always let's me know she wants to serve the Lord in helping me. Reluctantly ( because of pride) I let her come.

She always arrives with a treat for the kids ( a book to read, shaving cream, food) and hands ready to serve me in any way, whether it be washing the dishes or keeping the kids while I make a quick run to the store.

While here, she encourages the kids to live righteously, to be servants, to seek Christ. To honor AJ and I by obeying the first time, helping without being asked. She is quick to let them know of their need for Christ.

Claudia loves me. Do you know how I know this? Because she rebukes me in love when she sees sin in me. She prays for me. And I do the same for her. We encourage one another spiritually.

I learn a lot from Claudia. Just to listen to her love for God inspires me to be more like Christ.

If Claudia knew I was writing these true attributes of her, she would insist she is nothing but a sinner who by God's grace was saved. She would say she is so full of sin and the only good in her is Christ.

She is a Titus 2 lady in my life and I thank God for her. I pray she will continue to rebuke me, encourage me and love my family for many years to come.

The Answer Is...

2009-07-13T15:59:00.006-05:00

Last week I asked if anyone could guess what this was a picture of.

I had a few guesses online and off. 3 people got it right...

I was making a treat for my good friend, Amy. I had spilled some powder sugar on the table and left the room. When I returned, I caught Elijah and Katie Faith licking it up ( first picture). When they saw I was standing there taking a picture Katie Faith quickly jumped up as she knows they are not supposed to lick the table.

Mrs. Pat and Amy C. were correct in guessing it was the kids licking the table.

But Taryn was also correct. She asked if it was some sort of punishment. After I caught them doing this I wanted to get a picture of them. The first one did not turn out so I poured more on the table and told them to lick it up. They looked at me unsure if they really should. They did after me telling them it was ok. Well, my next two pictures did not turn out so I put some more sugar down. Katie Faith said she did not want to lick anymore because it was yucky. Elijah was sticking out his tongue wiping it. I told them to lick it again. Reluctantly they did. Later I saw that there was some shaving cream residue left over on the table from earlier play and realized they were tasting it. So yes, they did get punished for licking the sugar.

I was making peanut butter balls covered with chocolate for Amy. She loves them and I love her so I wanted to treat her.

They did not turn out to pretty but they did taste yummy!

Katie Faith asked if she could lick the chocolate off of my fingers...

Elijah licked my thumb and liked it so much he tried to take a chunk of it off by biting me.

Here is Kaylyn licking the spoon:

Amy with her treat:

The winners will get a prize this Wednesday night at church...the privilege of seeing me and getting a great big hug! Hee Hee!!!

What's Your Guess?

2009-07-09T11:50:00.004-05:00

Can anyone guess what this is a picture of?

Stay tuned for the answer!!!

Titus 2 Lady in My Life

2009-07-06T20:02:00.005-05:00

Blog friends, meet Claudia.

Wordless Wednesday

2009-07-01T12:25:00.002-05:00

Nicole and Zechariah:

New Friends!

Frugal Tip!

2009-06-25T21:33:00.010-05:00

Do you ever get tired of all of those grocery bags and not know what to do with them?

Well, I have a solution...and it will save you money!

Instead of throwing them away, use them as trash bags.

This what we do in our house.

I hang one on a cabinet door knob.

You never have an overflowing trash can...

And you have saved money in buying trash bags!

Don't worry about it looking sloppy when guests come over...just throw it in a garbage can outside and you will have a nice clean trash can when they arrive!

For more frugal ideas, click on " Frugal Fridays" above!

It has been "A Day"!

2009-06-25T08:51:00.013-05:00

Have you ever woke up in the morning just knowing it was going to be "one of those days"?

You wake up still tired ( especially because you are still getting up almost hourly from coughing spasms from a child who has whooping cough), in a bad mood. Maybe have a headache. Baby wakes up early so you don't have time to finish prayer time, the kids start to quarrel over toys, a child is sick and you wonder if it will spread to the rest of the kids, one child is getting upset because you don't understand what they are saying. Milk is spilled.

In the midst of this, do you struggle like I do to keep a soft answer because the Bible tells us "A soft answer turns away wrath" while your flesh is wanting to SCREAM! After all, I want to set a godly example before my family.

Yet the flesh is rising. So I try to talk to the children about the sin in their hearts and get them to understand this is why they are fighting. As calmly as I can not showing the anger that is festering up inside of me.

I cheerfully tell them to have a cheerful heart when inside mine is NOT cheerful. All it is thinking is......this is going to be a day! I start imagining what my day will look like while in the background their is murmuring by a child. One just spilled milk...again.

I feel the need to yell at them and tell them to stop all this mess.

So what do I do? My sin of anger is getting worse! I cry to God "Help me God because if you don't I will lose it right now! I need your strength!!!"

Then God convicts me of what I tell the kids to do when they are thinking of themselves.

"Think of the things of Christ and your day will be better. How can you have a bad day and think about Christ? He is to good!!! "

"Rejoice because this is the day that the Lord has made."

I open up the Bible and read to them...really myself...

Psalms 100.

"Make a joyful noise unto the Lord, all ye lands.
Serve the Lord with gladness: come before His presence with singing.
Know ye that the Lord He is God: it He that has made us, and not we ourselves; we are His people, and the sheep of His pasture.
Enter His gates with thanksgiving, and into His courts with praise: be thankful unto Him, and bless His name.
For the Lord is good; His mercy is everlasting; and His truth endureth to all generations."

I then play a song "This Is the Day" for them and myself.

While the song is playing I picked up Elijah and twirled around the table dancing with him and laughing. The kids had big smiles on their faces and our day seemed to be getting better.

Until about 30 minutes later. The bickering began again ( on a side note, my children do not usually quarrel this much but they are really tired!). I start feeling the frustration building up in me. Next thing I know, my flesh is taking over again. I took my eyes off of God's goodness.

I fight. I will not let my sin control me!

"Now what!" Another circumstance to mess up my day I think.

I will not let this get to me. I will keep my thoughts on Christ.

School begins. I have a toddler hanging on me screaming in my ear with delight, a 6 yr. old working on reading his phrases to me, an 8 yr. old asking me questions and a 4 yr. old telling me she feels better and wants to eat. All at once. I try to manage it all being calm. Then out of frustration one of the children snaps at me for something.

I could feel my blood boiling!

"Go to my room NOW for disrespecting me and talking to me in a harsh voice!" as I tell my child in a harsh voice. Yes, I was aware that I was being just as disrespectful to my child and tried to stop but it was like something overcame me.

I call my husband with my days problems so far and confess my sins to him. Telling him the house is a wreck, the kids behaviour is not good and neither is mine. He is very loving and encourages me.

So I get off the phone and decide I am going to start over. So I make lunch and take it outside for a picnic. The kids LOVE picnics!

Without going into the rest of the details, my day did not get better. Kids still tired and whiny and me...still having "a day". I vented to a good friend ( thank you friend! I appreciate your ear!) By 4pm I was done. I was counting down the time till AJ would be home.

Now it is 7:47pm, AJ and the kids are gone to his parents and I am home with the 2 younger ones who are sleeping and as I sit here writing my post the Lord has been convicting me.

I tried in MY strength to overcome my sin. Instead of resting in Him. Why do I do this?

My flesh fails EVERY time but God NEVER fails!

So though I was happy to get some time alone I am now looking forward to seeing my children and can't wait until they get home. I have some repenting to do and ask for forgiveness from my kids for my actions and sin. I need to tell them what the Lord has convicted me of. Though they probably won't understand.

I think I will write some scripture on some index cards and place them up around my house in frequent areas to help me keep my mind on Christ.

And most importantly...I will now go and ask my heavenly Father for His forgiveness for my actions, my trusting in my own strength instead of His, and ask for HIS help and meditate on HIS goodness.

Though my day has been rough, I will rejoice for this is has been a day HE hath made and preordained for me to grow in Him.

Wordless Wednesday

2009-06-17T09:00:00.005-05:00

Mommy's Little Helper!

Elijah may just have turned two a couple of months ago but he is surprisingly a good sweeper for his age. May God continue to give him a cheerful heart who wants to serve in our household by helping out!

And the Winner Is......

2009-06-15T22:55:00.008-05:00

My last post was about AJ and I taking each Monday night to spend quality time together. I mentioned we were going to play Settler's Of Catan. And we did. :)

AJ set up the board while I took a shower.

And as we always do, we shook hands and said, "May the fun begin."

We both had great spots and were doing well. I took a couple of spots AJ wanted ( Hee, Hee!!!) and was on the roll.

Until...this move.

It was the move that changed the game for AJ. In about 2-3 turns he went from losing to winning the game.

I was mad ( not really)...

He was happy!!!

But in the end, I look at MY MAN and the love I have for him came over me and I had a "Love Burst" for AJ.

So here you have it, AJ won "Settler's" but I am the true winner because I have a great husband who wants to spend time with me.

This may seem like a simple night to you but it reminds me of God's goodness of Him blessing me with a wonderful man who desires to love and nurture me with his time. God truly has given me a great guy......even though he beat me in my favorite game again......

I am off to bed now, going to dream about Settler's and......

Good night!

Plans Tonight?

2009-06-15T09:16:00.006-05:00

What are you doing this Monday night? Fixing dinner? Watching tv? Bathing kids? Reading a book?...What? What is that you ask? What am I doing?...I am glad you asked...

I am having a date with my wonderful, handsome husband.

No, we are not getting a sitter. No, we are not going out to dinner, we are staying right here, at our house.

Every Monday is our date night. I wake up looking forward to this special time with AJ. I make sure dinner is done early. I think about what we are going to do. I try to fix up myself a little sometimes.

But what about the kids? What are they doing?

They get the privileged of going to bed an hour early. At first when we began our date nights, they did not understand why or like it but now they know, this is "Daddy and Mommy's Special Date Night." Beginning in the morning, I begin reminded them it is our date night. They actually sometimes get excited for us...until I remind them they go to bed early. :)

Though some may think this is selfish of us, I would highly debate the issue.

We are teaching the kids that our relationship is important. AJ sees me as the most precious in his life ( besides Christ) and AJ is most important in my life ( again...except for Christ). They see we love each other so much we are setting time aside to spend time with one another. They learn that life is not all about them. I get the desired time of being with my husband and enjoy the adult stimulation after a long day of taking care of our kids who can be demanding, whiny, or disobedient at times. Our dates nights have grown us closer as we spend quality time with one another.

Don't forget to nurture your relationship with your spouse. One day our children will be gone. It is important to keep our love "alive" so your relationship with your spouse won't be "lost".
I encourage each one of you who are married to try to pick a day once a week, or whatever is most convenient for you, to set aside time for one another. We chose Monday's because the kids are usually extra tired from staying up late on Sunday nights after church.

So, what do we do on these nights? Well, it depends on the night. We may watch a movie, play a game, read, talk,etc...Whatever we decide.

Tonight, we are playing a game. My FAVORITE game in the whole wide world!

Settler's of Catan

Anyone ever hear of or played this game before? If not, you HAVE to get it! It is the best game! I could play it everyday. Sometimes I even dream about it. I am not that good but still love the challenge each time I play.

So, this is what I am doing tonight.......going on a date with my great husband whom I cherish so much, playing Settler's! And I plan on winning!!! :)

Who do you think will win?.....Stay tuned to see who the winner is of tonight's game is!!!

P.S. What is your favorite game? What would you recommend we try one night?

Wordless Wednesday

2009-06-09T22:41:00.004-05:00

Sisters and Best Friends...for life!

2009-06-08T09:35:00.005-05:00

A new week of meals. I want to thank you who sent me recipes on the blog and personally to me. I will be adding them to my meal list when I meal plan again. I look forward to trying them.

Monday: Leftover Zesty Mexican Chicken
(Recipe below)
Tuesday: Pork Chops ( sandwich or Mon. leftover for me)
Mac. and cheese
Veg.

Wednesday:Pasta With Veg. (add chicken)
Garlic Bread

Thursday: Leftovers

Friday: Tuna Casserole
Mixed veg.

Sat. night & Sunday Lunch: Chicken and gravy
Black-eyed peas and rice
Roasted green beans

Zesty Mexican Chicken:

Ingredients:
6 boneless skinless chicken breasts
1 can (14 oz.) of diced tomatoes
1 large onion
1 med. green pepper, chopped
3 garlic cloves, minced
2 tbs. lime juice
1 tbsp. hot pepper sauce
1/4 tsp. salt
1/4 tsp. pepper
3 cups cooked rice

-Place chicken in a slow cooker coated with cooking spray.
-In a large bowl, combine tomatoes, onion,green pepper, garlic,lime juice, salt, pepper, and pepper sauce.
-Pour over chicken.
-Cover and cook on low for 3-4 hrs. until chicken is done.
-Serve with rice.

I did not follow this recipe as is. What I did different is...... I combined all onion, green pepper and garlic and cooked them in olive oil until they were tender ( original recipe these would still be crispy and we don't like 1/2 raw onions). When this was finished, I added the tomatoes, salt, pepper, and lime juice. Stirred. Finally, I added shredded chicken I already had on hand. We are not fans of hot sauce so I omitted this.
We eat brown rice which takes 45 min. to cook so I began cooking the rice before I started the sauce.

My opinion on this new recipe was it was "Fair". AJ liked it so I will make it again but probably not for a few months.

Have a nice week!

Fruits and Veg. Challenge!

2009-06-03T22:32:00.005-05:00

Did you say vegetables? Fruit? Can they be in one dish and it be good? I mean really, who would put vegetables with fruit?......That would be me! :)

At our house, we skip the iceberg lettuce salad and go straight for the spinach. Even my kids detest iceberg lettuce. They say it is nasty, I agree.

When I fix our salads I ask everyone what they want in their salad. If they want it....they get it, unless it is a cookie or something like that.

Here are a few things I add if requested and I have them already here at the house:

Raisins, grapes, apples, nuts, cucumbers, tomatoes, cheese, strawberries...I know there has been other things requested, but can't remember them right now ( The raisins and grapes add a nice sweet flavor).

What is that you ask? Dressing? What do we use for dressing? My husband likes to make his own creation of olive oil and other "stuff", not sure what because he makes it, I like Ranch, and the kids?......Applesauce, unsweetened that is. They LOVE it on their salads ( and fish sticks and hamburgers, and....well...I don't want to gross you out to much!).

That is what we do for salads. Now for snacks:

Frozen grapes.
Frozen blueberries.
Healthy Smoothies made into popsicles.
Watermelon cut into different shapes with cookie cutters.
Baby carrot sticks (my kids think they are fun).
Apple with peanut butter.
Dehydrated apples or pineapple.

These are a few things we like to eat as snacks. My kids do like cookies but they get more excited when they have the fruits...so why not give that to then all of the time!

As far as vegetables as a snack...if you have any...please let me know! That would be great to add to my snack list! At least to mommy!

If you would like some more ideas, check out Heavenly Homemakers.

Wordless Wednesday

2009-06-03T10:39:00.004-05:00

Country Kids:

We don't live in the country, but in our hearts, we are country folks waiting for our frontier land.